"In my career I have never felt that my being a woman was an obstacle or an advantage. I guess I've been oblivious"
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The line works because it’s double-edged. On one side, it’s a flex: King’s catalog is so undeniable that she can narrate her career as if the playing field were level. On the other, “I guess I’ve been oblivious” is a subtle acknowledgement that bias often operates like background noise - audible to everyone except the person forced to tune it out to keep working. Obliviousness becomes a kind of armor, a way to stay focused on the craft when the culture is busy ranking you.
Context sharpens it. King came up in the Brill Building machine, writing hits in a roomful of men, then stepped into the singer-songwriter era and made Tapestry a mainstream blueprint. Her authority wasn’t granted; it was built, melody by melody, credit by credit. The subtext is less “gender didn’t matter” than “I didn’t let it set my terms.” It’s a statement about agency that also hints at what it costs to pretend the room is fair just to remain in it.
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APA Style (7th ed.)
King, Carole. (2026, January 15). In my career I have never felt that my being a woman was an obstacle or an advantage. I guess I've been oblivious. FixQuotes. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/in-my-career-i-have-never-felt-that-my-being-a-109935/
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King, Carole. "In my career I have never felt that my being a woman was an obstacle or an advantage. I guess I've been oblivious." FixQuotes. January 15, 2026. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/in-my-career-i-have-never-felt-that-my-being-a-109935/.
MLA Style (9th ed.)
"In my career I have never felt that my being a woman was an obstacle or an advantage. I guess I've been oblivious." FixQuotes, 15 Jan. 2026, https://fixquotes.com/quotes/in-my-career-i-have-never-felt-that-my-being-a-109935/. Accessed 16 Feb. 2026.








