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"In our monogamous part of the world, to marry means to halve one's rights and double one's duties"

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Schopenhauer turns marriage into a bleak little accounting exercise: a ledger where the ink always runs toward loss. The line snaps because it hijacks the sentimental language that usually surrounds matrimony and replaces it with contract math. “Monogamous part of the world” isn’t just geography; it’s a sly indictment of a Christian-bourgeois order that treats lifelong pairing as moral upgrade while quietly enforcing property norms, sexual discipline, and social conformity. He’s not describing love so much as the institution that claims to manage it.

The aphorism’s bite comes from its asymmetric arithmetic. Rights halved, duties doubled: the exchange is not equal, not romantic, not even negotiable. Schopenhauer frames marriage as a voluntary surrender to collective expectations, a mechanism for stabilizing society by distributing labor and limiting desire. That’s the subtext: monogamy isn’t merely a personal choice; it’s a governance tool that asks individuals to internalize restraint and call it virtue.

Context matters. Writing in 19th-century Europe, Schopenhauer watched the rising respectability of the middle class, where marriage functioned as social credential, economic alliance, and reputational insurance. His larger philosophy - suspicious of desire, convinced that human striving tends toward suffering - makes marriage an especially efficient trap: it promises fulfillment while multiplying obligations, binding two restless wills together under legal and moral pressure.

The line endures because it punctures the modern fantasy that commitment is pure self-expression. Schopenhauer suggests it’s also submission to a system that turns private life into public duty, then applauds you for volunteering.

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Arthur Schopenhauer

Arthur Schopenhauer (February 22, 1788 - September 21, 1860) was a Philosopher from Germany.

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