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Happiness Quote by W. H. Auden

"In times of joy, all of us wished we possessed a tail we could wag"

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Joy, Auden suggests, is an animal problem trapped in a human body. A wagging tail is the perfect image because it’s pure surplus: an appendage with no job except broadcasting feeling. In a line that’s almost disarmingly cute, he smuggles in a pointed diagnosis of modern self-consciousness. We experience happiness, but we don’t always know how to show it without immediately curating it, qualifying it, or fearing it will look naive. A tail would solve the performance anxiety. It would make delight legible, socially frictionless, impossible to overthink.

The intent isn’t to sentimentalize animals; it’s to expose the ways people have trained themselves out of unguarded expression. Auden’s era knew plenty about restraint. Writing across the interwar years and their aftermath, he watched private emotion get pressed into public roles: citizenship, duty, stoicism, ideological certainty. Against that backdrop, the wagging tail reads like a fantasy of honesty without rhetoric. No speech, no explanation, no “appropriate” posture - just involuntary evidence that something good has happened inside you.

Subtext: even joy can feel embarrassing in a culture that prizes control. We can cry with a kind of permission; we lack a comparably sanctioned vocabulary for exuberance. Auden’s plural “all of us” turns the line into a small act of solidarity, admitting that the difficulty isn’t individual awkwardness but a shared human limitation. The wit lands because it’s true: the body gives us a thousand ways to signal distress, and far fewer to announce uncomplicated pleasure.

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TopicJoy
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Later attribution: Through the Door Cuentos de Casa (Flora Gamez Grateron, 2023) modern compilationISBN: 9798887470702 · ID: 4_rOEAAAQBAJ
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... In times of joy, all of us wished we possessed a tail we could wag.” W. H. Auden It waves out of control, morning, noon and late into the night, at the break of day or be it dusk or dawn, it's relentless. As soon as the bedroom door ...
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Auden, W. H. (2026, February 9). In times of joy, all of us wished we possessed a tail we could wag. FixQuotes. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/in-times-of-joy-all-of-us-wished-we-possessed-a-84821/

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Auden, W. H. "In times of joy, all of us wished we possessed a tail we could wag." FixQuotes. February 9, 2026. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/in-times-of-joy-all-of-us-wished-we-possessed-a-84821/.

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"In times of joy, all of us wished we possessed a tail we could wag." FixQuotes, 9 Feb. 2026, https://fixquotes.com/quotes/in-times-of-joy-all-of-us-wished-we-possessed-a-84821/. Accessed 13 Feb. 2026.

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W. H. Auden

W. H. Auden (February 21, 1907 - September 29, 1973) was a Poet from England.

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