"It is fortunate to be of high birth, but it is no less so to be of such character that people do not care to know whether you are or are not"
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The subtext is not that birth is meaningless, but that it is a counterfeit currency people spend when they have nothing else. In Louis XIV's France, where rank functioned as both social law and theater, La Bruyere writes like a man watching courtiers compete in an economy of appearances. His praise is strategic: he grants the nobles their premise only to demonstrate how easily it can be superseded by genuine virtue. The real target is snobbery's neediness - the anxious compulsion to ask, "Who are you, really?" when the person in front of you hasn't supplied enough moral proof.
The rhetoric hinges on "people do not care to know". That indifference is the highest compliment in a status-obsessed world: your conduct has short-circuited the gossip network. La Bruyere isn't daydreaming about egalitarian utopia; he's offering an ethic of social immunity. Be so decent, so coherent, so unmistakable that the very question of origin feels beside the point - and the aristocracy, for once, has to compete on human terms.
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APA Style (7th ed.)
Bruyère, Jean de La. (2026, January 17). It is fortunate to be of high birth, but it is no less so to be of such character that people do not care to know whether you are or are not. FixQuotes. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/it-is-fortunate-to-be-of-high-birth-but-it-is-no-24128/
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Bruyère, Jean de La. "It is fortunate to be of high birth, but it is no less so to be of such character that people do not care to know whether you are or are not." FixQuotes. January 17, 2026. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/it-is-fortunate-to-be-of-high-birth-but-it-is-no-24128/.
MLA Style (9th ed.)
"It is fortunate to be of high birth, but it is no less so to be of such character that people do not care to know whether you are or are not." FixQuotes, 17 Jan. 2026, https://fixquotes.com/quotes/it-is-fortunate-to-be-of-high-birth-but-it-is-no-24128/. Accessed 9 Feb. 2026.









