"It is the paradox of life that the way to miss pleasure is to seek it first. The very first condition of lasting happiness is that a life should be full of purpose, aiming at something outside self"
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The second sentence tightens the argument into a civic ethic. “Lasting happiness” isn’t sentimental; it’s engineered through “purpose,” through “aiming at something outside self.” Coming from a judge - and specifically Hugo Black, a Supreme Court justice shaped by the New Deal era’s public-minded ambitions and later famous for his hard-edged civil-libertarian opinions - the emphasis on outward aim carries institutional weight. Law is, at minimum, a promise that the self is not the only unit that matters; rights and duties exist because other people exist.
Rhetorically, he does a clever swap: happiness isn’t a right you claim, it’s a consequence you earn indirectly by committing to something larger than your mood. It’s also a quiet critique of entitlement. If you want pleasure first, you end up missing it. If you want meaning first, pleasure shows up like an uninvited guest - and sticks around longer.
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| Topic | Happiness |
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APA Style (7th ed.)
Black, Hugo. (2026, January 15). It is the paradox of life that the way to miss pleasure is to seek it first. The very first condition of lasting happiness is that a life should be full of purpose, aiming at something outside self. FixQuotes. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/it-is-the-paradox-of-life-that-the-way-to-miss-142584/
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Black, Hugo. "It is the paradox of life that the way to miss pleasure is to seek it first. The very first condition of lasting happiness is that a life should be full of purpose, aiming at something outside self." FixQuotes. January 15, 2026. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/it-is-the-paradox-of-life-that-the-way-to-miss-142584/.
MLA Style (9th ed.)
"It is the paradox of life that the way to miss pleasure is to seek it first. The very first condition of lasting happiness is that a life should be full of purpose, aiming at something outside self." FixQuotes, 15 Jan. 2026, https://fixquotes.com/quotes/it-is-the-paradox-of-life-that-the-way-to-miss-142584/. Accessed 12 Feb. 2026.








