"It wasn't about mechanics; it was about a feeling, wanting to give someone something, which in turn was really gratifying. That really resonated for me"
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The phrasing is revealingly transactional, but not in a cynical way. “Wanting to give someone something” casts cooking as a gift economy: value isn’t measured by cost or complexity but by the act of offering. Then he slips in the payoff: “which in turn was really gratifying.” That “in turn” is the whole thesis. Service isn’t pure altruism; it’s a feedback loop where generosity produces self-reward, and the self-reward incentivizes more generosity. Keller is saying the magic isn’t in the plate; it’s in the circuit between giver and receiver.
In the context of fine dining, this is also a defense against the common critique that luxury restaurants are emotionally sterile showcases of technique. He’s insisting that the highest-end food can still be rooted in a simple human impulse: to make someone feel cared for. The repetition - “really gratifying… really resonated” - sounds almost like a chef talking himself back to center, reminding us that obsession with perfection is tolerable only when it’s in service of connection.
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APA Style (7th ed.)
Keller, Thomas. (2026, January 15). It wasn't about mechanics; it was about a feeling, wanting to give someone something, which in turn was really gratifying. That really resonated for me. FixQuotes. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/it-wasnt-about-mechanics-it-was-about-a-feeling-20805/
Chicago Style
Keller, Thomas. "It wasn't about mechanics; it was about a feeling, wanting to give someone something, which in turn was really gratifying. That really resonated for me." FixQuotes. January 15, 2026. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/it-wasnt-about-mechanics-it-was-about-a-feeling-20805/.
MLA Style (9th ed.)
"It wasn't about mechanics; it was about a feeling, wanting to give someone something, which in turn was really gratifying. That really resonated for me." FixQuotes, 15 Jan. 2026, https://fixquotes.com/quotes/it-wasnt-about-mechanics-it-was-about-a-feeling-20805/. Accessed 10 Feb. 2026.

