"It wasn't until I became more confident with myself and I put myself forward instead of the jokes; at first it was put the jokes out there and I'm just behind the jokes"
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Her line maps a shift from craft-as-shield to craft-as-self. “Put myself forward” doesn’t mean less funny; it means the comic is no longer hiding the stakes. The subtext is about authority: confidence isn’t just personal comfort, it’s permission to occupy the stage as a fully legible subject, not merely a delivery system for setups. When she says she was “behind the jokes,” you can hear the industry logic that rewards palatability: be quick, be sharp, but don’t be too present.
Sykes’s context makes the move sharper. As a Black queer woman in mainstream comedy, being “forward” risks backlash - not because the material changes, but because the audience now has to reconcile the laugh with the person making it. Her intent is almost instructional: the strongest comedy isn’t only precision writing, it’s the decision to stand in the line of fire and let the joke point back at you. That’s where persona becomes power.
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APA Style (7th ed.)
Sykes, Wanda. (2026, January 16). It wasn't until I became more confident with myself and I put myself forward instead of the jokes; at first it was put the jokes out there and I'm just behind the jokes. FixQuotes. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/it-wasnt-until-i-became-more-confident-with-129546/
Chicago Style
Sykes, Wanda. "It wasn't until I became more confident with myself and I put myself forward instead of the jokes; at first it was put the jokes out there and I'm just behind the jokes." FixQuotes. January 16, 2026. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/it-wasnt-until-i-became-more-confident-with-129546/.
MLA Style (9th ed.)
"It wasn't until I became more confident with myself and I put myself forward instead of the jokes; at first it was put the jokes out there and I'm just behind the jokes." FixQuotes, 16 Jan. 2026, https://fixquotes.com/quotes/it-wasnt-until-i-became-more-confident-with-129546/. Accessed 12 Feb. 2026.





