"It's important that people know what you stand for. It's equally important that they know what you won't stand for"
About this Quote
As an editor, Waldrip is speaking from a profession built around omission and constraint. Good editing isn’t only choosing what to include; it’s knowing what must not make it onto the page, what compromises the integrity of the piece, what turns intention into mush. That background gives the quote its real subtext: your “no” is the proof of your “yes.” Anyone can signal beliefs when they’re popular or consequence-free. Refusal is where the friction lives - with bosses, audiences, peers, algorithms, family.
The structure matters, too: “equally important” refuses the comforting hierarchy where ideals are noble and limits are negative. Waldrip argues that boundaries are not the grim accessory to virtue; they’re part of the same ethical system. Read culturally, it’s a rebuttal to the soft-focus language of institutions and public figures who “stand for” everything - inclusion, excellence, community - while standing against nothing specific enough to upset donors, voters, or customers. The quote doesn’t romanticize conflict, but it insists on accountability: if people don’t know what you won’t tolerate, they don’t actually know you.
Quote Details
| Topic | Honesty & Integrity |
|---|---|
| Source | Later attribution: Heirpower! (Bob Vásquez, 2009) modern compilationISBN: 9781437912777 · ID: 6V_yvDX75DEC
Evidence:
... It's important that people know what you stand for . It's equally important that they know what you won't stand for . —Mary H. Waldrip People will sit up and take notice of you if you will sit up and take notice of what makes them sit ... |
| Featured | This quote was our Quote of the Day on October 19, 2023 |
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APA Style (7th ed.)
Waldrip, Mary H. (2026, January 11). It's important that people know what you stand for. It's equally important that they know what you won't stand for. FixQuotes. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/its-important-that-people-know-what-you-stand-for-103401/
Chicago Style
Waldrip, Mary H. "It's important that people know what you stand for. It's equally important that they know what you won't stand for." FixQuotes. January 11, 2026. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/its-important-that-people-know-what-you-stand-for-103401/.
MLA Style (9th ed.)
"It's important that people know what you stand for. It's equally important that they know what you won't stand for." FixQuotes, 11 Jan. 2026, https://fixquotes.com/quotes/its-important-that-people-know-what-you-stand-for-103401/. Accessed 13 Feb. 2026.








