"I've learned to trust my instincts, and if something doesn't feel right or I don't think it's funny, I won't do it"
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There is a quiet defiance in Nealon's line, the kind that only sounds simple if you’ve never had to please a room full of strangers on a deadline. Comedy, especially the kind forged on sketch shows and late-night sets, trains performers to override their own radar: take the note, hit the mark, smile through the bit, keep the machine moving. Nealon is describing the moment you stop being a good soldier and start acting like an author.
The intent is practical: a rule for survival in an industry built on compromise. But the subtext is about power. “Trust my instincts” isn’t mystical; it’s a hard-won permission slip to say no when collaborators, executives, or audiences want something broader, safer, or just louder. The second clause sharpens it: he pairs “doesn’t feel right” with “isn’t funny,” making taste inseparable from ethics. Not “edgy” versus “offensive” as a culture-war talking point, but a craft truth: if your body clocks a joke as wrong, the audience will often sense the strain. The laughter, if it comes, won’t land clean.
Context matters here. Nealon’s career (SNL, stand-up, a long run as the deadpan utility player) rewards subtlety and timing, not desperation. Instinct becomes an internal editor when external feedback is noisy, contradictory, or driven by commerce. In an era where comedians are pushed to either sanitize or provoke for attention, his standard is almost old-fashioned: the bit has to align with your own compass. That restraint reads less like caution and more like confidence.
The intent is practical: a rule for survival in an industry built on compromise. But the subtext is about power. “Trust my instincts” isn’t mystical; it’s a hard-won permission slip to say no when collaborators, executives, or audiences want something broader, safer, or just louder. The second clause sharpens it: he pairs “doesn’t feel right” with “isn’t funny,” making taste inseparable from ethics. Not “edgy” versus “offensive” as a culture-war talking point, but a craft truth: if your body clocks a joke as wrong, the audience will often sense the strain. The laughter, if it comes, won’t land clean.
Context matters here. Nealon’s career (SNL, stand-up, a long run as the deadpan utility player) rewards subtlety and timing, not desperation. Instinct becomes an internal editor when external feedback is noisy, contradictory, or driven by commerce. In an era where comedians are pushed to either sanitize or provoke for attention, his standard is almost old-fashioned: the bit has to align with your own compass. That restraint reads less like caution and more like confidence.
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