"I've never been to the websites. It's a lot healthier for me to keep out of the conversations about me"
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The phrasing is telling. Not “I try not to look,” but “I’ve never been” - a clean, almost stubborn purity test against the feedback loop. Then she slips in the real thesis: “It’s a lot healthier for me.” Health is the trump card that shuts down debate. She’s not scolding fans or dunking on critics; she’s framing the choice as self-preservation, which makes it hard to argue with without sounding monstrous.
The subtext is a quiet indictment of the internet’s favorite sport: turning artists into public property and calling it discourse. “Conversations about me” is deliberately impersonal, as if these aren’t interactions but weather systems. Apple positions herself not as a participant who can “set the record straight,” but as the object being discussed - a role that strips agency and invites obsession.
In the broader context of her career, the quote matches her longstanding refusal to perform likability on command. She’s protecting the work from the noise, and protecting herself from the emotional tax of reading your own reputation in real time. In an era that confuses access with intimacy, she’s choosing distance as a form of dignity.
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| Topic | Self-Care |
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APA Style (7th ed.)
Apple, Fiona. (n.d.). I've never been to the websites. It's a lot healthier for me to keep out of the conversations about me. FixQuotes. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/ive-never-been-to-the-websites-its-a-lot-164657/
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Apple, Fiona. "I've never been to the websites. It's a lot healthier for me to keep out of the conversations about me." FixQuotes. Accessed February 2, 2026. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/ive-never-been-to-the-websites-its-a-lot-164657/.
MLA Style (9th ed.)
"I've never been to the websites. It's a lot healthier for me to keep out of the conversations about me." FixQuotes, https://fixquotes.com/quotes/ive-never-been-to-the-websites-its-a-lot-164657/. Accessed 2 Feb. 2026.








