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Daily Inspiration Quote by Meghan Markle

"I've never wanted to be a lady who lunches - I've always wanted to be a woman who works"

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Meghan Markle’s line lands because it stages a clean break with a very specific archetype: the “lady who lunches,” that glossy shorthand for leisure-as-identity, where status is maintained through optics, not output. It’s not just a preference statement; it’s a refutation of a box she’s been repeatedly shoved into by tabloids, palace-watchers, and even admirers who frame her primarily through marriage, wardrobe, and etiquette. By choosing “woman who works,” she claims agency in a culture that still treats female ambition as either unbecoming or suspicious, especially when it comes wrapped in glamour.

The subtext is a negotiation with contradiction. Markle is undeniably adjacent to elite spaces where lunching-lady expectations thrive, yet she’s insisting on being evaluated by labor: projects, philanthropy, entrepreneurship, purpose. That word “lady” is doing quiet heavy lifting too - it signals a dated class-and-gender script, a velvet-rope femininity with rules. “Woman,” in contrast, reads as adult, self-authoring, harder to patronize.

It also functions as reputational judo. Markle has been painted as calculating, attention-seeking, “difficult” - the usual vocabulary deployed when women push for control. “I want to work” reframes that same drive as something legible, even admirable, in capitalist terms. There’s a cultural dare embedded in the sentence: if you’re going to watch me, watch what I build, not what I wear to lunch.

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APA Style (7th ed.)
Markle, Meghan. (2026, January 15). I've never wanted to be a lady who lunches - I've always wanted to be a woman who works. FixQuotes. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/ive-never-wanted-to-be-a-lady-who-lunches-ive-171796/

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Markle, Meghan. "I've never wanted to be a lady who lunches - I've always wanted to be a woman who works." FixQuotes. January 15, 2026. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/ive-never-wanted-to-be-a-lady-who-lunches-ive-171796/.

MLA Style (9th ed.)
"I've never wanted to be a lady who lunches - I've always wanted to be a woman who works." FixQuotes, 15 Jan. 2026, https://fixquotes.com/quotes/ive-never-wanted-to-be-a-lady-who-lunches-ive-171796/. Accessed 6 Feb. 2026.

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Meghan Markle

Meghan Markle (born August 4, 1981) is a Actress from USA.

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