"Just stop for a minute and you'll realize you're happy just being. I think it's the pursuit that screws up happiness. If we drop the pursuit, it's right here"
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Hillman is smuggling a small rebellion into a calm, almost meditative instruction: stop. Not improve, not optimize, not “do the work” in the self-help sense - just interrupt the forward lunge. As a psychologist who spent his career poking holes in reductionist, fix-it models of the mind, he’s aiming at a distinctly modern pathology: treating happiness like a product you earn through effort, discipline, and the right life hacks.
The line “the pursuit that screws up happiness” flips a culturally sacred script. In a society that worships striving, pursuit is assumed to be virtuous, even when it’s miserable. Hillman’s subtext is that happiness gets distorted the moment it becomes a goal. The chase turns feeling into performance: you start monitoring your inner state, comparing it to an imagined benchmark, and anxiety slips in disguised as ambition. You’re no longer living; you’re auditing yourself.
“Happy just being” isn’t naïve bliss or denial of suffering. It’s closer to Hillman’s broader project of “soul-making,” where meaning comes from attending to what’s present rather than forcing the psyche into a productivity plan. The rhetorical trick is its immediacy: “it’s right here.” No future self required, no external validation, no milestone. He’s not offering comfort so much as a critique: the marketplace of betterment sells you distance from your own life, then calls that distance “motivation.”
The line “the pursuit that screws up happiness” flips a culturally sacred script. In a society that worships striving, pursuit is assumed to be virtuous, even when it’s miserable. Hillman’s subtext is that happiness gets distorted the moment it becomes a goal. The chase turns feeling into performance: you start monitoring your inner state, comparing it to an imagined benchmark, and anxiety slips in disguised as ambition. You’re no longer living; you’re auditing yourself.
“Happy just being” isn’t naïve bliss or denial of suffering. It’s closer to Hillman’s broader project of “soul-making,” where meaning comes from attending to what’s present rather than forcing the psyche into a productivity plan. The rhetorical trick is its immediacy: “it’s right here.” No future self required, no external validation, no milestone. He’s not offering comfort so much as a critique: the marketplace of betterment sells you distance from your own life, then calls that distance “motivation.”
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| Topic | Live in the Moment |
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