"Life consists not in holding good cards but in playing those you hold well"
About this Quote
As a 19th-century American comedian and aphorist, Billings worked in the same cultural neighborhood as Mark Twain, where humor doubled as social enforcement. The card metaphor lets him talk about class, talent, health, and circumstance without naming any of them. That’s the subtext: some people absolutely are dealt worse hands, but the only arena where dignity can reliably be measured is in what you do next. It’s a dodge and a dare at once.
The line also flatters the reader into accountability. You don’t need to be gifted; you need to be skillful, alert, strategic. “Holding” suggests passive possession; “playing” implies decision under pressure, performance, nerve. And “well” is doing a lot of work: not necessarily winning, but showing competence, creativity, and grit. The joke hiding underneath is that everyone thinks they’re stuck with a bad hand; Billings’ punchline is that this belief is often just bad play dressed up as fate.
Quote Details
| Topic | Wisdom |
|---|---|
| Source | Verified source: Josh Billings on Ice, and Other Things (Josh Billings, 1868)
Evidence: As in a game ov cards, so in the game ov life, we must play what is dealt tew us, and the glory consists, not so mutch in winning, as in playing a poor hand well. (Chapter XXIV: “Perkussion Caps” (book page 89; in Project Gutenberg HTML line ~974)). This is a primary-source match in Josh Billings’ own work (Josh Billings = pen name of Henry Wheeler Shaw). The commonly-circulated wording you provided (“Life consists not in holding good cards but in playing those you hold well”) appears to be a later paraphrase/modernization of this sentence, not the original phrasing. The Project Gutenberg transcription (linked) includes the line in context in Chapter XXIV (“Perkussion Caps”). Note that the Gutenberg HTML edition shown has a roman-numeral title page dated 1870 while also stating it was entered according to Act of Congress in 1868; the quotation is still verifiably present in this work and is widely attributed to the 1868 edition. Other candidates (1) Follow Your Dreams (Melanie Young, 2013) compilation95.0% ... Life consists not in holding good cards but in playing those you hold well." ~Josh Billings “Silence is one of th... |
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