"Life for me has been exactly what I thought it would be, a cake, which I have eaten and had too"
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As an editor who helped steer modernism into public view (and controversy), Anderson understood that culture is shaped less by safe taste than by the people willing to bankroll risk with their reputations. The cake is indulgence, yes, but it’s also the spoils of agency: a life curated rather than endured. “Exactly what I thought it would be” signals premeditation. She’s not thanking fate; she’s crediting expectation as a form of authorship. Think of it as self-fulfilling prophecy with better lighting.
The subtext bites hardest when you remember her era. Early 20th-century respectability politics loved punishing women for wanting too much: too sexual, too ambitious, too loud. Anderson’s sentence makes wanting look not only survivable but stylishly inevitable. It’s also editor talk: she “had” the cake by possessing access, influence, and a point of view; she “ate” it by spending those assets on experience, scandal, and art without apologizing for the mess.
What makes it work is its lightness. Instead of martyrdom, she offers mischief - a modernist ethos compressed into dessert.
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