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Daily Inspiration Quote by Margaret Anderson

"Life for me has been exactly what I thought it would be, a cake, which I have eaten and had too"

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A cake you can both eat and keep is a polite middle finger to the moral bookkeeping that usually frames a woman’s life: choose pleasure or respectability, appetite or accomplishment, art or security. Margaret Anderson flips that scarcity script with a grin. The line borrows the logic of an “impossible” proverb, then treats it as lived reality. That’s the flex. She’s not confessing to having it all; she’s rejecting the premise that desire must be rationed.

As an editor who helped steer modernism into public view (and controversy), Anderson understood that culture is shaped less by safe taste than by the people willing to bankroll risk with their reputations. The cake is indulgence, yes, but it’s also the spoils of agency: a life curated rather than endured. “Exactly what I thought it would be” signals premeditation. She’s not thanking fate; she’s crediting expectation as a form of authorship. Think of it as self-fulfilling prophecy with better lighting.

The subtext bites hardest when you remember her era. Early 20th-century respectability politics loved punishing women for wanting too much: too sexual, too ambitious, too loud. Anderson’s sentence makes wanting look not only survivable but stylishly inevitable. It’s also editor talk: she “had” the cake by possessing access, influence, and a point of view; she “ate” it by spending those assets on experience, scandal, and art without apologizing for the mess.

What makes it work is its lightness. Instead of martyrdom, she offers mischief - a modernist ethos compressed into dessert.

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Anderson, Margaret. (n.d.). Life for me has been exactly what I thought it would be, a cake, which I have eaten and had too. FixQuotes. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/life-for-me-has-been-exactly-what-i-thought-it-49294/

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Anderson, Margaret. "Life for me has been exactly what I thought it would be, a cake, which I have eaten and had too." FixQuotes. Accessed February 1, 2026. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/life-for-me-has-been-exactly-what-i-thought-it-49294/.

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"Life for me has been exactly what I thought it would be, a cake, which I have eaten and had too." FixQuotes, https://fixquotes.com/quotes/life-for-me-has-been-exactly-what-i-thought-it-49294/. Accessed 1 Feb. 2026.

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Margaret Anderson (November 24, 1886 - October 18, 1973) was a Editor from USA.

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