"Love yourself first and everything else falls into line. You really have to love yourself to get anything done in this world"
About this Quote
The context matters. Lucille Ball was a woman running a studio in mid-century Hollywood, negotiating contracts, pregnancy storylines, and a public image that had to be both lovable and tightly managed. Self-love here reads less like self-care branding and more like survival strategy in an industry that profited from insecurity. To “get anything done,” you need a baseline of self-regard strong enough to withstand the constant audition: the casting director’s gaze, the audience’s laughter, the tabloid’s appetite.
It also reframes productivity as psychological. Ball implies that the real bottleneck isn’t talent or opportunity; it’s the internal sabotage of shame. Love yourself first, and you stop outsourcing your worth to applause. That’s not sentimental. It’s operational. In Ball’s world, self-love is the unglamorous infrastructure that keeps the show running.
Quote Details
| Topic | Self-Love |
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... Love yourself first and everything else falls into line . You really have to love yourself to get anything done in this world . ” ~ Lucille Ball Love of self is the first concept presented to move toward a truly loving partnership . It ... |
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APA Style (7th ed.)
Ball, Lucille. (2026, February 12). Love yourself first and everything else falls into line. You really have to love yourself to get anything done in this world. FixQuotes. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/love-yourself-first-and-everything-else-falls-531/
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Ball, Lucille. "Love yourself first and everything else falls into line. You really have to love yourself to get anything done in this world." FixQuotes. February 12, 2026. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/love-yourself-first-and-everything-else-falls-531/.
MLA Style (9th ed.)
"Love yourself first and everything else falls into line. You really have to love yourself to get anything done in this world." FixQuotes, 12 Feb. 2026, https://fixquotes.com/quotes/love-yourself-first-and-everything-else-falls-531/. Accessed 12 Feb. 2026.










