"Many people would be more truthful were it not for their uncontrollable desire to talk"
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Silence, Howe suggests, is less a moral achievement than a practical strategy: a way to keep your own ego from sabotaging your honesty. The sting of the line is that it doesn’t flatter virtue. It demotes truthfulness from a noble trait to a fragile condition, easily ruptured by the ordinary itch to be heard. People aren’t primarily liars, in this view; they’re narrators. Once the mouth opens, the self begins curating, embroidering, positioning.
The quote works because it treats “talk” as a kind of compulsion - “uncontrollable desire” - shifting blame from calculated deceit to human reflex. That’s editorial wisdom from someone who watched language get weaponized daily: in print, in politics, in gossip, in the small social transactions where a clean fact is less useful than a good story. An editor’s world is built on talk made permanent, where every extra sentence creates new opportunities for exaggeration, omission, and self-exoneration.
Subtext: the social reward system is rigged against candor. Conversation is performance, and performance demands momentum. Admitting ignorance kills momentum; qualifying your claim drains drama; pausing to verify feels like weakness. So people fill space. They round sharp edges. They swap accuracy for fluency.
Contextually, Howe’s era - late 19th to early 20th century American journalism - was a training ground in public persuasion, boosterism, and reputational combat. His cynicism isn’t misanthropy so much as a field report: the more we talk, the more we negotiate with the truth, and the negotiation rarely ends in truth’s favor.
The quote works because it treats “talk” as a kind of compulsion - “uncontrollable desire” - shifting blame from calculated deceit to human reflex. That’s editorial wisdom from someone who watched language get weaponized daily: in print, in politics, in gossip, in the small social transactions where a clean fact is less useful than a good story. An editor’s world is built on talk made permanent, where every extra sentence creates new opportunities for exaggeration, omission, and self-exoneration.
Subtext: the social reward system is rigged against candor. Conversation is performance, and performance demands momentum. Admitting ignorance kills momentum; qualifying your claim drains drama; pausing to verify feels like weakness. So people fill space. They round sharp edges. They swap accuracy for fluency.
Contextually, Howe’s era - late 19th to early 20th century American journalism - was a training ground in public persuasion, boosterism, and reputational combat. His cynicism isn’t misanthropy so much as a field report: the more we talk, the more we negotiate with the truth, and the negotiation rarely ends in truth’s favor.
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| Topic | Honesty & Integrity |
|---|---|
| Source | Help us find the source |
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