"Marriage is a coming together for better or for worse, hopefully enduring, and intimate to the degree of being sacred"
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The clincher is “intimate to the degree of being sacred.” Douglas isn’t preaching religion; he’s drafting a boundary. “Sacred” functions as a constitutional metaphor, elevating marriage into a protected sphere where government should tread lightly. In mid-20th-century American jurisprudence, Douglas was central to building the modern idea of privacy (most famously in Griswold v. Connecticut). His choice of words reads like a bridge between cultural reverence and legal doctrine: if something is treated as sacred in the civic imagination, it becomes politically and legally perilous to regulate it like an ordinary contract.
The subtext is strategic: marriage is framed not as paperwork or property, but as a human relationship whose meaning is partly non-negotiable, partly beyond measurement. By defining it as “coming together” rather than a status conferred by the state, Douglas subtly flips the hierarchy: the law follows the lived fact, not the other way around. It’s an argument for restraint disguised as a blessing, and it helped lay groundwork for later fights over contraception, sexuality, and who gets to claim the shelter of that “sacred” intimacy.
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| Topic | Marriage |
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| Source | Verified source: Griswold v. Connecticut, 381 U.S. 479 (William O. Douglas, 1965)
Evidence: Marriage is a coming together for better or for worse, hopefully enduring, and intimate to the degree of being sacred. (Page 486). This is from Justice William O. Douglas's majority opinion in Griswold v. Connecticut, 381 U.S. 479 (decided June 7, 1965). The quotation appears in the official United States Reports at 381 U.S. 486. The earliest primary-source publication I found is the Court's opinion itself, later printed in the official U.S. Reports. A reliable legal text version also shows the sentence at page 486, and the Justia text places it in the opinion text corresponding to 381 U.S. 486. The Library of Congress hosts the official U.S. Reports record for this case. ([supreme.justia.com](https://supreme.justia.com/cases/federal/us/381/479/)) Other candidates (1) Same-Sex Marriage and the Constitution (Evan Gerstmann, 2004) compilation95.3% ... William O. Douglas found that a right to privacy was implicit in the " penumbras " of the Constitution . By this ... |
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"Marriage is a coming together for better or for worse, hopefully enduring, and intimate to the degree of being sacred." FixQuotes, 10 Mar. 2026, https://fixquotes.com/quotes/marriage-is-a-coming-together-for-better-or-for-145552/. Accessed 27 Mar. 2026.








