"Marriage is a wonderful institution, but who wants to live in an institution?"
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Groucho Marx lands the joke by yoking two meanings of "institution" that normally never share a room. Marriage, in polite company, is an institution in the civic sense: a respected pillar, a social technology for organizing sex, money, and legitimacy. An institution, in the other sense, is where society puts you when it has decided you need supervision. The line works because it doesn’t argue; it detonates a linguistic trapdoor. You nod at the first clause, then the second clause reclassifies the whole enterprise as confinement.
The intent isn’t anti-love so much as anti-piety. Groucho punctures the sanctimony that surrounds marriage by treating it like any other system with rules, bureaucracy, and a loss of personal freedom. The subtext is that marriages can become self-perpetuating organizations: roles harden, habits ossify, and intimacy gets managed like a schedule. He’s also mocking how society sells marriage as a moral achievement while quietly relying on it as a mechanism of control. The laugh is a small act of refusal: if this is an institution, then opting out is less a romantic failure than a reasonable escape.
Context matters. Groucho’s era treated marriage as the default adult destiny, with divorce stigmatized and domestic life idealized in public even when it was privately miserable. His persona - urbane, suspicious of authority, allergic to cant - turns that pressure into comedy. The line isn’t just a punchline; it’s a pressure valve for anyone who’s felt the respectable thing start to feel like a locked door.
The intent isn’t anti-love so much as anti-piety. Groucho punctures the sanctimony that surrounds marriage by treating it like any other system with rules, bureaucracy, and a loss of personal freedom. The subtext is that marriages can become self-perpetuating organizations: roles harden, habits ossify, and intimacy gets managed like a schedule. He’s also mocking how society sells marriage as a moral achievement while quietly relying on it as a mechanism of control. The laugh is a small act of refusal: if this is an institution, then opting out is less a romantic failure than a reasonable escape.
Context matters. Groucho’s era treated marriage as the default adult destiny, with divorce stigmatized and domestic life idealized in public even when it was privately miserable. His persona - urbane, suspicious of authority, allergic to cant - turns that pressure into comedy. The line isn’t just a punchline; it’s a pressure valve for anyone who’s felt the respectable thing start to feel like a locked door.
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| Topic | Witty One-Liners |
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| Source | Groucho Marx , quip "Marriage is a wonderful institution, but who wants to live in an institution?" (commonly attributed); listed on Wikiquote: Groucho Marx. |
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