"Misery no longer loves company. Nowadays it insists on it"
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Misery used to be a shared bench on a bad day; Baker argues it has become a mandatory group project. The line works because it flips a familiar proverb with the tiniest grammatical torque: “loves” becomes “insists.” That upgrade turns sadness from a private condition into a social demand, a kind of emotional enforcement. It’s funny in the way Baker often was funny: not with a punchline, but with a grim little recognition that feels too accurate to dismiss.
The subtext is less about individual gloom than about the culture that broadcasts it. “Company” here isn’t friendship; it’s an audience. Misery “insisting” suggests that complaining has acquired both entitlement and strategy, that grievance now expects validation, amplification, and communal participation. It’s the difference between confiding in a friend and recruiting a jury. Baker is needling the performative aspect of modern discontent: the pressure to convert every irritation into a story, every disappointment into a public identity, every pain into a shared liturgy.
Context matters because Baker’s career sits at the hinge between old mass media and the more participatory (and more demanding) attention economy that followed. A newspaper columnist watched the national mood up close: how outrage cycles, how victims and cynics trade costumes, how the public square rewards the loudest wound. The irony is that insisting on company doesn’t necessarily cure misery; it just gives it better distribution. Baker’s wit lands because it diagnoses a social habit while making us laugh at our complicity in it.
The subtext is less about individual gloom than about the culture that broadcasts it. “Company” here isn’t friendship; it’s an audience. Misery “insisting” suggests that complaining has acquired both entitlement and strategy, that grievance now expects validation, amplification, and communal participation. It’s the difference between confiding in a friend and recruiting a jury. Baker is needling the performative aspect of modern discontent: the pressure to convert every irritation into a story, every disappointment into a public identity, every pain into a shared liturgy.
Context matters because Baker’s career sits at the hinge between old mass media and the more participatory (and more demanding) attention economy that followed. A newspaper columnist watched the national mood up close: how outrage cycles, how victims and cynics trade costumes, how the public square rewards the loudest wound. The irony is that insisting on company doesn’t necessarily cure misery; it just gives it better distribution. Baker’s wit lands because it diagnoses a social habit while making us laugh at our complicity in it.
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