"My mother was very agnostic. She would never set foot in the synagogue, she couldn't be doing with it"
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The phrase “she couldn’t be doing with it” is doing double duty. On the surface it’s a brisk, almost comic dismissal - the sound of a woman waving away something tiresome. Underneath, it signals that the synagogue represented not only religion but community expectations: rituals, social policing, the unspoken demand to perform identity correctly. Suzman lets us hear the class and generational texture in the idiom: a certain Britishness that turns refusal into good sense, as if piety were an inconvenience like bad weather.
Contextually, it also hints at Jewishness in 20th-century Britain as something you could inherit without consenting to its institutions. For an actress, that’s a charged backdrop: identity as costume versus conviction, belonging as performance. The mother’s stance reads less like rebellion and more like self-protection, a refusal to let a communal space define her inner life. The intent isn’t to dunk on religion; it’s to sketch a household where skepticism was normal, and where personal sovereignty mattered more than tradition’s choreography.
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Suzman, Janet. (2026, January 15). My mother was very agnostic. She would never set foot in the synagogue, she couldn't be doing with it. FixQuotes. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/my-mother-was-very-agnostic-she-would-never-set-149248/
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Suzman, Janet. "My mother was very agnostic. She would never set foot in the synagogue, she couldn't be doing with it." FixQuotes. January 15, 2026. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/my-mother-was-very-agnostic-she-would-never-set-149248/.
MLA Style (9th ed.)
"My mother was very agnostic. She would never set foot in the synagogue, she couldn't be doing with it." FixQuotes, 15 Jan. 2026, https://fixquotes.com/quotes/my-mother-was-very-agnostic-she-would-never-set-149248/. Accessed 12 Feb. 2026.



