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War & Peace Quote by Henny Youngman

"My other brother-in-law died. He was a karate expert, then joined the army. The first time he saluted, he killed himself"

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Henny Youngman takes a staple of domestic small talk - the casually announced death in the family - and spikes it with a cartoonishly abrupt punchline. The setup sounds like a sincere biographical aside: “My other brother-in-law died.” That “other” is doing work already, suggesting a backlog of in-laws and a comedian’s deadpan indifference. Then he builds a tidy little ladder of masculine credentialing: “karate expert,” “joined the army.” In most narratives, those details are meant to earn respect, or at least signal competence. Youngman uses them as a fuse.

The joke’s snap comes from a perverse literalism. A salute is supposed to be harmless, purely symbolic: the body performing obedience. Youngman turns it into a lethal technique, as if the brother-in-law’s martial training makes even protocol dangerous. It’s a gag about overqualification, about how institutions absorb identity until it becomes self-destructive. The army doesn’t just teach him discipline; it triggers the one move he can’t safely execute.

There’s also a classic Youngman cruelty here: death as throwaway, grief as material. The brother-in-law is a stock character, not a person; the shock is the point. In mid-century American comedy, especially the one-liner tradition, that emotional flattening is part of the aesthetic. The laughter comes from speed, from the mind catching up to the image of a man so aggressively trained to strike that even honoring authority becomes accidental suicide.

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APA Style (7th ed.)
Youngman, Henny. (2026, January 18). My other brother-in-law died. He was a karate expert, then joined the army. The first time he saluted, he killed himself. FixQuotes. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/my-other-brother-in-law-died-he-was-a-karate-19823/

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Youngman, Henny. "My other brother-in-law died. He was a karate expert, then joined the army. The first time he saluted, he killed himself." FixQuotes. January 18, 2026. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/my-other-brother-in-law-died-he-was-a-karate-19823/.

MLA Style (9th ed.)
"My other brother-in-law died. He was a karate expert, then joined the army. The first time he saluted, he killed himself." FixQuotes, 18 Jan. 2026, https://fixquotes.com/quotes/my-other-brother-in-law-died-he-was-a-karate-19823/. Accessed 5 Feb. 2026.

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Henny Youngman

Henny Youngman (March 16, 1906 - February 24, 1998) was a Comedian from USA.

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