"Nobody notices me. Nobody thinks I'm me. But then I look less like me than most of the people coming to our concerts"
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There's a poignant tug under the punchline. Smith's stage persona is famously heightened: smeared lipstick, teased hair, the gothic-romantic silhouette that became shorthand for The Cure. When he says "Nobody thinks I'm me", he's pointing at a modern celebrity paradox: your face becomes a logo, and once it's a logo, it can be worn by anyone. The fan in the front row isn't just imitating him; they're participating in a shared aesthetic identity that has outgrown its creator.
"Less like me" is the key twist. Smith isn't claiming authenticity; he's undermining it. The "real" Robert Smith is, in this framing, not the guy with the best Robert Smith costume. He's the one watching his own image circulate, slightly displaced, like a brand that escaped its owner. It's also a gracious kind of power move: instead of policing the boundary between artist and audience, he treats the blur as the point. The Cure's culture isn't top-down; it's communal, and Smith is wryly admitting he's just one attendee at the scene he helped build.
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| Topic | Loneliness |
|---|---|
| Source | Help us find the source |
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APA Style (7th ed.)
Smith, Robert. (2026, January 16). Nobody notices me. Nobody thinks I'm me. But then I look less like me than most of the people coming to our concerts. FixQuotes. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/nobody-notices-me-nobody-thinks-im-me-but-then-i-106688/
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Smith, Robert. "Nobody notices me. Nobody thinks I'm me. But then I look less like me than most of the people coming to our concerts." FixQuotes. January 16, 2026. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/nobody-notices-me-nobody-thinks-im-me-but-then-i-106688/.
MLA Style (9th ed.)
"Nobody notices me. Nobody thinks I'm me. But then I look less like me than most of the people coming to our concerts." FixQuotes, 16 Jan. 2026, https://fixquotes.com/quotes/nobody-notices-me-nobody-thinks-im-me-but-then-i-106688/. Accessed 4 Feb. 2026.



