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Parenting & Family Quote by Thurgood Marshall

"None of us got where we are solely by pulling ourselves up by our bootstraps. We got here because somebody - a parent, a teacher, an Ivy League crony or a few nuns - bent down and helped us pick up our boots"

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The genius of Marshall's line is how it hijacks a sacred American cliché and makes it testify against itself. "Bootstraps" is our favorite moral shortcut: success as solitary proof of virtue. Marshall keeps the prop but changes the physics. You cannot lift yourself by your own boots; the phrase was always a tall tale, and he treats it that way, letting the absurdity do the prosecuting.

The list of helpers is the real argument. He starts with the sentimental staples (parent, teacher) and then slips in two needles: "an Ivy League crony" and "a few nuns". The first punctures the myth that elite networks are somehow less "real" than hard work; the second nods to the often invisible labor of institutions - frequently religious, frequently female - that build lives without getting credit (>and without always sharing power). It's not a cozy thank-you note. It's a rebuke aimed at people who benefit from systems while pretending those systems don't exist.

Context matters: Marshall, the NAACP lawyer who dismantled legal segregation and later became the Supreme Court's first Black justice, spent his career arguing that opportunity is structured by law, not just willpower. His intent is political and moral: to make social support legible, to shame austerity-minded individualism, and to insist that progress is a relay, not a solo sprint. The subtext is clear: if someone helped you up, you don't get to kick the ladder away.

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Thurgood Marshall

Thurgood Marshall (July 2, 1908 - January 24, 1993) was a Judge from USA.

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