"Oh, don't let's ask for the moon. We've already got the stars"
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Bette Davis’s line lands like a cigarette exhale: brisk, amused, and just tender enough to sting. “Oh, don’t let’s ask for the moon” sounds like caution, but it’s really a performance of restraint, the kind Hollywood trained women to wear as charm. The subtext isn’t modesty; it’s strategy. Don’t demand the impossible, don’t be seen grasping, don’t become the problem. Yet the second sentence flips the mood: “We’ve already got the stars.” That’s not surrender. It’s a sly reframing of desire, an insistence that what’s on offer (status, romance, attention, success) is already celestial.
The wit works because it’s a double entendre that belongs to Davis’s era and image. Stars are both literal night-sky consolation prizes and the studio system’s currency. A movie star telling you you’ve “already got the stars” is both generosity and flex: why chase the moon when you’re already in the most mythologized place on Earth? It’s romance talk and industry talk in the same breath, which is classic Davis: emotional realism delivered with a blade.
Context matters: Davis built a career playing women punished for wanting too much, then refusing to apologize for it. This line threads that needle. It flatters the listener, lowers the stakes, and quietly asserts control over the narrative of wanting. In a culture that policed female ambition, Davis makes limitation sound like sophistication - and makes settling feel, for a moment, like winning.
The wit works because it’s a double entendre that belongs to Davis’s era and image. Stars are both literal night-sky consolation prizes and the studio system’s currency. A movie star telling you you’ve “already got the stars” is both generosity and flex: why chase the moon when you’re already in the most mythologized place on Earth? It’s romance talk and industry talk in the same breath, which is classic Davis: emotional realism delivered with a blade.
Context matters: Davis built a career playing women punished for wanting too much, then refusing to apologize for it. This line threads that needle. It flatters the listener, lowers the stakes, and quietly asserts control over the narrative of wanting. In a culture that policed female ambition, Davis makes limitation sound like sophistication - and makes settling feel, for a moment, like winning.
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| Topic | Contentment |
|---|---|
| Source | Later attribution: English Quotations Complete Collection: Volume II (Daniel B. Smith, 2021) modern compilationID: avchEQAAQBAJ
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