"People have always said, Are you gay? I've had a lot of that. But it's just not in me. I really like women a lot; I'm repulsed by men sexually"
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The subtext is doing two contradictory things at once. On one hand, it reads as an assertion of autonomy: you don’t get to label me based on vibe, style, or rumor. On the other, the phrasing reveals anxiety about how “gay” functions as social currency and stigma. “It’s just not in me” frames sexuality as an essential, internal truth, but it also implies that being mistaken for gay is an intrusion. Then he escalates from clarification to repudiation: “repulsed by men sexually.” That’s not simply heterosexuality; it’s heterosexuality performed as distance, a rhetorical arm’s length meant to shut the conversation down.
Context matters: Brand’s public persona has long been hypersexual, chaotic, and aggressively straight-coded, with masculinity expressed through excess. In that light, the quote is less about desire than about reputation management. It treats queerness not as a neighboring possibility but as a category to be decisively ejected, which is precisely why it works as a cultural artifact: it exposes how often male identity is still defended with disgust when a simple “no” would do.
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| Topic | Romantic |
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APA Style (7th ed.)
Brand, Russell. (2026, February 20). People have always said, Are you gay? I've had a lot of that. But it's just not in me. I really like women a lot; I'm repulsed by men sexually. FixQuotes. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/people-have-always-said-are-you-gay-ive-had-a-lot-4896/
Chicago Style
Brand, Russell. "People have always said, Are you gay? I've had a lot of that. But it's just not in me. I really like women a lot; I'm repulsed by men sexually." FixQuotes. February 20, 2026. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/people-have-always-said-are-you-gay-ive-had-a-lot-4896/.
MLA Style (9th ed.)
"People have always said, Are you gay? I've had a lot of that. But it's just not in me. I really like women a lot; I'm repulsed by men sexually." FixQuotes, 20 Feb. 2026, https://fixquotes.com/quotes/people-have-always-said-are-you-gay-ive-had-a-lot-4896/. Accessed 26 Feb. 2026.




