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"People have always said, Are you gay? I've had a lot of that. But it's just not in me. I really like women a lot; I'm repulsed by men sexually"

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Brand’s line lands like a defensive joke that forgot to be funny: a preemptive strike against a question he’s clearly been asked often enough to script an answer. As a comedian, he’s working the familiar terrain of provocation and confession, but the rhythm here is closer to damage control than punchline. The first sentence sets up a cultural reality - male flamboyance, theatricality, or nonstandard masculinity gets policed with the same binary question - and you can hear him trying to reclaim authorship over the narrative.

The subtext is doing two contradictory things at once. On one hand, it reads as an assertion of autonomy: you don’t get to label me based on vibe, style, or rumor. On the other, the phrasing reveals anxiety about how “gay” functions as social currency and stigma. “It’s just not in me” frames sexuality as an essential, internal truth, but it also implies that being mistaken for gay is an intrusion. Then he escalates from clarification to repudiation: “repulsed by men sexually.” That’s not simply heterosexuality; it’s heterosexuality performed as distance, a rhetorical arm’s length meant to shut the conversation down.

Context matters: Brand’s public persona has long been hypersexual, chaotic, and aggressively straight-coded, with masculinity expressed through excess. In that light, the quote is less about desire than about reputation management. It treats queerness not as a neighboring possibility but as a category to be decisively ejected, which is precisely why it works as a cultural artifact: it exposes how often male identity is still defended with disgust when a simple “no” would do.

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APA Style (7th ed.)
Brand, Russell. (2026, February 20). People have always said, Are you gay? I've had a lot of that. But it's just not in me. I really like women a lot; I'm repulsed by men sexually. FixQuotes. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/people-have-always-said-are-you-gay-ive-had-a-lot-4896/

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Brand, Russell. "People have always said, Are you gay? I've had a lot of that. But it's just not in me. I really like women a lot; I'm repulsed by men sexually." FixQuotes. February 20, 2026. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/people-have-always-said-are-you-gay-ive-had-a-lot-4896/.

MLA Style (9th ed.)
"People have always said, Are you gay? I've had a lot of that. But it's just not in me. I really like women a lot; I'm repulsed by men sexually." FixQuotes, 20 Feb. 2026, https://fixquotes.com/quotes/people-have-always-said-are-you-gay-ive-had-a-lot-4896/. Accessed 26 Feb. 2026.

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Russell Brand (born June 4, 1975) is a Comedian from United Kingdom.

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