"Since others have to tolerate my weaknesses, it is only fair that I should tolerate theirs"
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The intent is practical and slightly prosecutorial. “Since others have to tolerate my weaknesses” forces a confession of fallibility before you’re allowed to judge anyone else. White, who made a career of addressing communities in the language of common sense, turns humility into a social rule, not a private virtue. “Only fair” is the tell: this isn’t sentimental forgiveness; it’s fairness, a word that belongs to newspapers, juries, and town arguments. He’s translating moral behavior into a kind of public accounting.
The subtext is a critique of moral arrogance, especially the kind that thrives in tight-knit places where everyone knows your business and still pretends they don’t. Editors live at the intersection of grievance and reputation; they see how quickly private flaws become public weapons. White’s line anticipates that dynamic and tries to defuse it with symmetry: the community survives not by denying weakness, but by pricing it in.
Context matters: coming of age in the Progressive Era, White championed reform without romanticizing human nature. This sentence is reform-minded realism: better norms, lower self-righteousness, fewer purges.
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APA Style (7th ed.)
White, William Allen. (2026, January 15). Since others have to tolerate my weaknesses, it is only fair that I should tolerate theirs. FixQuotes. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/since-others-have-to-tolerate-my-weaknesses-it-is-151627/
Chicago Style
White, William Allen. "Since others have to tolerate my weaknesses, it is only fair that I should tolerate theirs." FixQuotes. January 15, 2026. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/since-others-have-to-tolerate-my-weaknesses-it-is-151627/.
MLA Style (9th ed.)
"Since others have to tolerate my weaknesses, it is only fair that I should tolerate theirs." FixQuotes, 15 Jan. 2026, https://fixquotes.com/quotes/since-others-have-to-tolerate-my-weaknesses-it-is-151627/. Accessed 17 Feb. 2026.









