"The attitude is we live and let live. This is actually an amazing change in values in a rather short time and it's an example of freedom from religion"
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Then comes the provocation: "freedom from religion". Wolfe isn’t just describing secularization; he’s reframing it as liberation, a rights-based escape from moral surveillance. The subtext is that religious authority didn’t merely guide private conscience; it policed public behavior, defining whose choices were acceptable enough to coexist. "Let live" implies there were people who previously weren’t being "let" at all. Wolfe’s wording carries that history without naming it: the closet, the stigma, the civic penalties, the everyday humiliations.
Context matters. Wolfe’s career tracked postwar America mutating at high speed - sexual revolution, gay rights, the decline of mainline Protestant cultural hegemony, the rise of lifestyle individualism. He’s admiring the new tolerance, but he’s also registering it like an anthropologist watching a tribe swap gods. The wit is in the inversion: religion, typically associated with freedom, becomes the thing you need freedom from.
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Wolfe, Tom. (2026, January 16). The attitude is we live and let live. This is actually an amazing change in values in a rather short time and it's an example of freedom from religion. FixQuotes. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/the-attitude-is-we-live-and-let-live-this-is-96767/
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Wolfe, Tom. "The attitude is we live and let live. This is actually an amazing change in values in a rather short time and it's an example of freedom from religion." FixQuotes. January 16, 2026. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/the-attitude-is-we-live-and-let-live-this-is-96767/.
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"The attitude is we live and let live. This is actually an amazing change in values in a rather short time and it's an example of freedom from religion." FixQuotes, 16 Jan. 2026, https://fixquotes.com/quotes/the-attitude-is-we-live-and-let-live-this-is-96767/. Accessed 12 Feb. 2026.








