"The best way to forget ones self is to look at the world with attention and love"
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Auerbach, the cigar-chomping architect of the Celtics dynasty, isn’t offering incense-and-candles spirituality here. He’s talking about the discipline of getting your ego out of the way so you can actually see what’s in front of you: the open man, the shifting defense, the teammate who needs a word, the rookie who needs a role. For a coach, “forget one’s self” isn’t self-erasure; it’s the antidote to the most expensive kind of blindness in competitive life: being trapped in your own story.
The phrasing is deceptively tender. “Attention” is the hard part, the film-room verb. It implies patience, repetition, and an almost stubborn willingness to notice small truths that don’t flatter you. “Love” is the twist. In the sports world, love can sound soft until you recognize it as commitment without constant negotiation: you keep looking, you keep teaching, you keep believing players can become more than their current habits. That’s not sentimentality; it’s management philosophy.
The subtext is also a rebuke to performative leadership. Coaches who make everything about their genius eventually coach for the camera, the legacy, the argument. Auerbach built cultures where the system, not the star, got the final word. In that context, the line reads like a quiet blueprint: sustained attention plus genuine care is how a team becomes bigger than any individual - including the guy drawing up the plays.
The phrasing is deceptively tender. “Attention” is the hard part, the film-room verb. It implies patience, repetition, and an almost stubborn willingness to notice small truths that don’t flatter you. “Love” is the twist. In the sports world, love can sound soft until you recognize it as commitment without constant negotiation: you keep looking, you keep teaching, you keep believing players can become more than their current habits. That’s not sentimentality; it’s management philosophy.
The subtext is also a rebuke to performative leadership. Coaches who make everything about their genius eventually coach for the camera, the legacy, the argument. Auerbach built cultures where the system, not the star, got the final word. In that context, the line reads like a quiet blueprint: sustained attention plus genuine care is how a team becomes bigger than any individual - including the guy drawing up the plays.
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| Topic | Live in the Moment |
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