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Marriage Quote by William Blackstone

"The husband and wife are one, and that one is the husband"

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A whole legal universe is smuggled into that neat little punchline: unity, harmony, domestic peace - and then the trapdoor opens. Blackstone’s line lands because it mimics the language of romance ("are one") only to reveal the hard accounting underneath: the one who counts is the husband. It’s not just patriarchal sentiment dressed up as wit; it’s a summary of coverture, the doctrine that collapsed a married woman’s legal identity into her husband’s. One body politic, one wallet, one set of rights - and one person authorized to act.

Blackstone wrote as an expositor of English common law, and the intent is partly descriptive: to codify what courts already treated as settled. That’s what makes the sentence so chilling. It’s offered with the crisp finality of a rule, not the heat of an argument. The subtext is bureaucratic domination: love and household order are invoked to legitimize a transfer of agency. The marriage bond becomes a legal merger in which one party disappears.

The line also performs ideological work. By framing hierarchy as unity, it makes inequality sound natural, even virtuous. If the couple is "one", then dissent looks like disorder; a wife asserting separate interests can be cast as irrationally fragmenting the household. Read now, it doubles as a reminder that law doesn’t merely reflect social norms - it manufactures them, polishing power into common sense with a sentence that still stings for how efficiently it turns intimacy into governance.

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TopicHusband & Wife
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Later attribution: Gender and Law in the Hebrew Bible and the Ancient Near East (Victor H. Matthews, Bernard M. Levins..., 2004) modern compilationISBN: 9780567080981 · ID: 2rZnXQwPX8gC
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... the husband and wife are one , and that one is the husband ' , 21 the Middle Assyrian Laws set out guidelines for spouses ' mutual and separate liabilities and benefits , as in MAL A §35 : 21. William Blackstone , Commentaries on the ...
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APA Style (7th ed.)
Blackstone, William. (2026, February 10). The husband and wife are one, and that one is the husband. FixQuotes. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/the-husband-and-wife-are-one-and-that-one-is-the-108254/

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Blackstone, William. "The husband and wife are one, and that one is the husband." FixQuotes. February 10, 2026. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/the-husband-and-wife-are-one-and-that-one-is-the-108254/.

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"The husband and wife are one, and that one is the husband." FixQuotes, 10 Feb. 2026, https://fixquotes.com/quotes/the-husband-and-wife-are-one-and-that-one-is-the-108254/. Accessed 12 Feb. 2026.

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William Blackstone (July 10, 1723 - February 14, 1780) was a Judge from England.

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