"The reason man does not experience his true cultural self is that until he experiences another self as valid he has little basis for validating his own self"
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Hall lands a counterintuitive punch: you don't discover who you are by staring harder at yourself. You discover it when someone else's way of being stops feeling like an error. The line reads like social science, but the intent is quietly moral. He is arguing that "culture" isn't a private possession lodged inside an individual; it's a relational system that becomes visible only at the border where your assumptions meet somebody else's and fail to automatically win.
The subtext is a critique of the default setting Hall saw in mid-century American life, especially in diplomacy, development work, and corporate expansion: the belief that one's own norms are simply "normal". If the other person is treated as a problem to be corrected, your own habits remain invisible, protected by the illusion of universality. Validating another self as valid doesn't mean approving everything; it means recognizing that the other person's logic is internally coherent. That recognition creates contrast, and contrast creates self-knowledge.
Context matters because Hall helped invent intercultural communication as a field during the Cold War, when misunderstanding across cultures wasn't just awkward; it was strategic risk. His work on proxemics and "high-context/low-context" cultures is essentially about the information hidden in what we take for granted: space, time, silence, directness. This sentence compresses that whole project into a provocation. It's not "be tolerant" as lifestyle advice. It's "your identity is empirically untestable until you encounter difference without contempt."
The subtext is a critique of the default setting Hall saw in mid-century American life, especially in diplomacy, development work, and corporate expansion: the belief that one's own norms are simply "normal". If the other person is treated as a problem to be corrected, your own habits remain invisible, protected by the illusion of universality. Validating another self as valid doesn't mean approving everything; it means recognizing that the other person's logic is internally coherent. That recognition creates contrast, and contrast creates self-knowledge.
Context matters because Hall helped invent intercultural communication as a field during the Cold War, when misunderstanding across cultures wasn't just awkward; it was strategic risk. His work on proxemics and "high-context/low-context" cultures is essentially about the information hidden in what we take for granted: space, time, silence, directness. This sentence compresses that whole project into a provocation. It's not "be tolerant" as lifestyle advice. It's "your identity is empirically untestable until you encounter difference without contempt."
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