"There is no winning or losing, but rather the value is in the experience of imagining yourself as a character in whatever genre you're involved in, whether it's a fantasy game, the Wild West, secret agenst or whatever else. You get to sort of vicariously experience those things"
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The phrasing matters. “Imagining yourself as a character” puts the self on the operating table. You’re not just moving a token; you’re testing a version of you under pressure, in costume. The list of genres - fantasy, Wild West, secret agent - is a sales pitch, but it’s also a thesis about modular desire. D&D isn’t one story; it’s a machine for trying on stories, a toolkit for fantasies that other media mostly hand you prepackaged. The subtext is democratic: you don’t need Hollywood budgets or real-world permission to enter these worlds. You need friends, time, and a shared willingness to pretend.
“Vicariously” does double duty. It acknowledges escapism without apology, framing it as experiential rather than evasive. In the late 20th-century moral panics around role-playing games, that’s defensive but also defiant: yes, you’re elsewhere; that’s the feature. Gygax is arguing for play as a legitimate way to explore risk, heroism, and choice - not as a substitute for life, but as a rehearsal space where meaning is made collaboratively, not tallied.
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Gygax, Gary. (2026, January 17). There is no winning or losing, but rather the value is in the experience of imagining yourself as a character in whatever genre you're involved in, whether it's a fantasy game, the Wild West, secret agenst or whatever else. You get to sort of vicariously experience those things. FixQuotes. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/there-is-no-winning-or-losing-but-rather-the-46516/
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Gygax, Gary. "There is no winning or losing, but rather the value is in the experience of imagining yourself as a character in whatever genre you're involved in, whether it's a fantasy game, the Wild West, secret agenst or whatever else. You get to sort of vicariously experience those things." FixQuotes. January 17, 2026. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/there-is-no-winning-or-losing-but-rather-the-46516/.
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"There is no winning or losing, but rather the value is in the experience of imagining yourself as a character in whatever genre you're involved in, whether it's a fantasy game, the Wild West, secret agenst or whatever else. You get to sort of vicariously experience those things." FixQuotes, 17 Jan. 2026, https://fixquotes.com/quotes/there-is-no-winning-or-losing-but-rather-the-46516/. Accessed 12 Feb. 2026.








