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"There was a friend of ours who worked with a girl who had said she would consider being a surrogate. We met her and right away she was awesome. We were looking for someone who could take care of themselves and it was pretty clear she could"

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Meloni’s casual, buddy-story framing ("a friend of ours", "worked with a girl") does a lot of quiet PR labor. It drags surrogacy out of the realm of glossy celebrity headlines and drops it into the social network most people actually trust: acquaintances, referrals, vibe checks. That choice matters because surrogacy is still a moral Rorschach test in public discourse. By narrating it like finding a great babysitter or contractor, he normalizes the decision and softens the listener’s suspicion that something transactional or exploitative is happening.

The key word is "awesome" - an intentionally nontechnical judgment that signals chemistry and safety rather than paperwork and law. He’s selling comfort. Then he pivots to the line that carries the ethical subtext: "someone who could take care of themselves". In one stroke, he asserts respect for the surrogate as a competent adult and preemptively swats away the critique that surrogacy depends on desperation. It’s also a parent’s fear speaking: pregnancy is risky, and outsourcing gestation doesn’t outsource responsibility. They’re not just hiring a womb; they’re entrusting a life to someone’s decision-making under stress.

The context is celebrity family-making in an era when reproduction is both medicalized and politicized. Meloni’s language avoids grand narratives about miracles or destiny. It’s practical, almost sheepish, which is exactly why it lands: it treats surrogacy less like a cultural flashpoint and more like a relationship built on mutual confidence and capability.

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Meloni, Christopher. (n.d.). There was a friend of ours who worked with a girl who had said she would consider being a surrogate. We met her and right away she was awesome. We were looking for someone who could take care of themselves and it was pretty clear she could. FixQuotes. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/there-was-a-friend-of-ours-who-worked-with-a-girl-41310/

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Meloni, Christopher. "There was a friend of ours who worked with a girl who had said she would consider being a surrogate. We met her and right away she was awesome. We were looking for someone who could take care of themselves and it was pretty clear she could." FixQuotes. Accessed February 3, 2026. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/there-was-a-friend-of-ours-who-worked-with-a-girl-41310/.

MLA Style (9th ed.)
"There was a friend of ours who worked with a girl who had said she would consider being a surrogate. We met her and right away she was awesome. We were looking for someone who could take care of themselves and it was pretty clear she could." FixQuotes, https://fixquotes.com/quotes/there-was-a-friend-of-ours-who-worked-with-a-girl-41310/. Accessed 3 Feb. 2026.

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Christopher Meloni (born April 2, 1961) is a Actor from USA.

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