"There was a friend of ours who worked with a girl who had said she would consider being a surrogate. We met her and right away she was awesome. We were looking for someone who could take care of themselves and it was pretty clear she could"
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The key word is "awesome" - an intentionally nontechnical judgment that signals chemistry and safety rather than paperwork and law. He’s selling comfort. Then he pivots to the line that carries the ethical subtext: "someone who could take care of themselves". In one stroke, he asserts respect for the surrogate as a competent adult and preemptively swats away the critique that surrogacy depends on desperation. It’s also a parent’s fear speaking: pregnancy is risky, and outsourcing gestation doesn’t outsource responsibility. They’re not just hiring a womb; they’re entrusting a life to someone’s decision-making under stress.
The context is celebrity family-making in an era when reproduction is both medicalized and politicized. Meloni’s language avoids grand narratives about miracles or destiny. It’s practical, almost sheepish, which is exactly why it lands: it treats surrogacy less like a cultural flashpoint and more like a relationship built on mutual confidence and capability.
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APA Style (7th ed.)
Meloni, Christopher. (n.d.). There was a friend of ours who worked with a girl who had said she would consider being a surrogate. We met her and right away she was awesome. We were looking for someone who could take care of themselves and it was pretty clear she could. FixQuotes. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/there-was-a-friend-of-ours-who-worked-with-a-girl-41310/
Chicago Style
Meloni, Christopher. "There was a friend of ours who worked with a girl who had said she would consider being a surrogate. We met her and right away she was awesome. We were looking for someone who could take care of themselves and it was pretty clear she could." FixQuotes. Accessed February 3, 2026. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/there-was-a-friend-of-ours-who-worked-with-a-girl-41310/.
MLA Style (9th ed.)
"There was a friend of ours who worked with a girl who had said she would consider being a surrogate. We met her and right away she was awesome. We were looking for someone who could take care of themselves and it was pretty clear she could." FixQuotes, https://fixquotes.com/quotes/there-was-a-friend-of-ours-who-worked-with-a-girl-41310/. Accessed 3 Feb. 2026.






