"This is our lives. The way to give it dignity is to tell the truth"
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The subtext carries the pressure of a life lived under scrutiny and control, especially for a woman in a 20th-century industry that thrived on mythmaking: studios managing images, tabloids weaponizing scandal, and a culture eager to punish anyone who complicated the script. Grant's own history deepens the stakes. Blacklisted in the McCarthy era for refusing to perform ideological loyalty, she learned that "truth" isn't just moral posture; it's a cost. When institutions demand compliance, honesty becomes a form of resistance.
What makes the line work is its simplicity. "This is our lives" has the blunt finality of a curtain drop. No metaphors, no inspirational sheen. Then the pivot: dignity doesn't arrive from fame, romance, or redemption arcs; it comes from narration - who gets to say what happened, and without euphemism. For an actress, that is the sharpest reversal: the real performance isn't on camera, it's in refusing to lie about the life behind it.
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APA Style (7th ed.)
Grant, Lee. (2026, January 16). This is our lives. The way to give it dignity is to tell the truth. FixQuotes. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/this-is-our-lives-the-way-to-give-it-dignity-is-127292/
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Grant, Lee. "This is our lives. The way to give it dignity is to tell the truth." FixQuotes. January 16, 2026. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/this-is-our-lives-the-way-to-give-it-dignity-is-127292/.
MLA Style (9th ed.)
"This is our lives. The way to give it dignity is to tell the truth." FixQuotes, 16 Jan. 2026, https://fixquotes.com/quotes/this-is-our-lives-the-way-to-give-it-dignity-is-127292/. Accessed 12 Feb. 2026.








