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"Times are hard and friends are few"

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"Times are hard and friends are few" lands like a shrug that’s secretly doing a lot of work. Coming from Paul O'Grady, it reads less like Victorian gloom and more like a comedian’s compact survival kit: a plainspoken line that can be deployed as a punchline, a warning, or a moment of unexpected sincerity. The genius is its old-fashioned cadence - almost nursery-rhyme simple - which makes it easy to repeat, easier to believe, and hard to argue with. It’s folk wisdom with a bite.

The specific intent isn’t to dramatize suffering; it’s to name it without begging for sympathy. O’Grady’s whole public persona thrived on that balance: the camp warmth, the working-class steel, the ability to make hardship sound like material rather than trauma. He’s reminding you that scarcity isn’t only financial. When life tightens, social circles do too. People disappear. The phone stops ringing. The line exposes the quiet economy of loyalty: friendship, like money, gets tested when it’s needed most.

Subtextually, it’s also a jab at performative togetherness. Hard times reveal who’s real, but the phrasing keeps it unsentimental. No melodrama, no self-pity - just a neat, slightly bleak couplet that invites a laugh because it’s too true. In the context of British comedy, that’s classic: turn endurance into a one-liner, let the audience laugh, and slip the honesty in under the rim.

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APA Style (7th ed.)
O'Grady, Paul. (2026, January 15). Times are hard and friends are few. FixQuotes. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/times-are-hard-and-friends-are-few-4882/

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O'Grady, Paul. "Times are hard and friends are few." FixQuotes. January 15, 2026. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/times-are-hard-and-friends-are-few-4882/.

MLA Style (9th ed.)
"Times are hard and friends are few." FixQuotes, 15 Jan. 2026, https://fixquotes.com/quotes/times-are-hard-and-friends-are-few-4882/. Accessed 7 Feb. 2026.

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Paul O'Grady (June 14, 1955 - March 28, 2023) was a Comedian from England.

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