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Time & Perspective Quote by Trevor Noah

"We spend so much time being afraid of failure, afraid of rejection. But regret is the thing we should fear most"

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Trevor Noah’s line works because it smuggles a hard truth into the language of everyday anxiety. Fear of failure and fear of rejection are immediate, socially legible emotions; they feel practical, even responsible. You can justify them. Regret, though, is the quiet invoice that arrives later, when the story of your life has fewer pages left to edit. Noah flips the hierarchy of dread: what we treat as the biggest threats are often just momentary bruises, while the real damage is the slow erosion of possibility.

The intent is motivational, but not in the glossy, hustle-poster way. It’s a comedian’s reframing: take the thing the audience already feels, then pivot to the angle that makes them see their own behavior as slightly absurd. Being “afraid of rejection” can be a convenient alibi for staying put. Regret exposes that bargain. It’s less about courage as bravado and more about courage as accounting: what will cost you more, a bruised ego now or a lifelong “what if”?

Context matters. Noah’s comedy and public persona are built around translating discomfort into clarity, shaped by an upbringing in apartheid and a career in a media ecosystem that rewards caution while punishing missteps. In that world, fear is constant and loud. Regret is quieter, but it’s also more honest: it’s the fear that suggests you’re complicit in your own smallness. The line lands because it turns self-protection into a punchline and a dare at the same time.

Quote Details

TopicFailure
SourceBorn a Crime: Stories from a South African Childhood (2016)
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APA Style (7th ed.)
Noah, Trevor. (2026, February 3). We spend so much time being afraid of failure, afraid of rejection. But regret is the thing we should fear most. FixQuotes. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/we-spend-so-much-time-being-afraid-of-failure-184870/

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Noah, Trevor. "We spend so much time being afraid of failure, afraid of rejection. But regret is the thing we should fear most." FixQuotes. February 3, 2026. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/we-spend-so-much-time-being-afraid-of-failure-184870/.

MLA Style (9th ed.)
"We spend so much time being afraid of failure, afraid of rejection. But regret is the thing we should fear most." FixQuotes, 3 Feb. 2026, https://fixquotes.com/quotes/we-spend-so-much-time-being-afraid-of-failure-184870/. Accessed 12 Feb. 2026.

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Trevor Noah

Trevor Noah (born February 20, 1984) is a Comedian from South Africa.

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