"We spend so much time being afraid of failure, afraid of rejection. But regret is the thing we should fear most"
About this Quote
The intent is motivational, but not in the glossy, hustle-poster way. It’s a comedian’s reframing: take the thing the audience already feels, then pivot to the angle that makes them see their own behavior as slightly absurd. Being “afraid of rejection” can be a convenient alibi for staying put. Regret exposes that bargain. It’s less about courage as bravado and more about courage as accounting: what will cost you more, a bruised ego now or a lifelong “what if”?
Context matters. Noah’s comedy and public persona are built around translating discomfort into clarity, shaped by an upbringing in apartheid and a career in a media ecosystem that rewards caution while punishing missteps. In that world, fear is constant and loud. Regret is quieter, but it’s also more honest: it’s the fear that suggests you’re complicit in your own smallness. The line lands because it turns self-protection into a punchline and a dare at the same time.
Quote Details
| Topic | Failure |
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| Source | Born a Crime: Stories from a South African Childhood (2016) |
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APA Style (7th ed.)
Noah, Trevor. (2026, February 3). We spend so much time being afraid of failure, afraid of rejection. But regret is the thing we should fear most. FixQuotes. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/we-spend-so-much-time-being-afraid-of-failure-184870/
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Noah, Trevor. "We spend so much time being afraid of failure, afraid of rejection. But regret is the thing we should fear most." FixQuotes. February 3, 2026. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/we-spend-so-much-time-being-afraid-of-failure-184870/.
MLA Style (9th ed.)
"We spend so much time being afraid of failure, afraid of rejection. But regret is the thing we should fear most." FixQuotes, 3 Feb. 2026, https://fixquotes.com/quotes/we-spend-so-much-time-being-afraid-of-failure-184870/. Accessed 12 Feb. 2026.








