Skip to main content

Fatherhood Quote by William Shakespeare

"When a father gives to his son, both laugh; when a son gives to his father, both cry"

About this Quote

Shakespeare nails a whole family saga in one hinge: the direction of giving. When a father gives to his son, the exchange is socially frictionless, almost theatrical in its ease. The father’s gift confirms his role as provider and author of the household story; the son receives without shame because youth is allowed to be dependent. Laughter isn’t just happiness here, it’s relief - everyone is still where they’re “supposed” to be.

Reverse it and the mood curdles. A son giving to his father carries a quiet alarm: something has shifted, and time has collected its debt. The father’s need, or even his willingness to accept help, exposes vulnerability that patriarchal order tries to keep offstage. The son’s generosity is love, but it’s also an acknowledgment that he has become the adult in the room. That recognition lands as grief even when the act is tender, because it marks an irreversible transfer of power.

The line works because it refuses sentimentality. Shakespeare doesn’t romanticize filial piety; he anatomizes it. The “both” matters - not one person’s emotion but a shared, involuntary response to status changing hands. It reads like a compressed scene from the late plays and tragedies alike: parents aging, children stepping into responsibility, joy and sorrow braided together. In that split-second emotional reversal, Shakespeare shows how family isn’t just affection; it’s a fragile hierarchy held together by time.

Quote Details

TopicFather
Source
Later attribution: Can We Talk? (William Spencer, Dayle Spencer, 2022) modern compilationISBN: 9798765234822 · ID: OcGbEAAAQBAJ
Text match: 95.00%   Provider: Google Books
Evidence:
The Unspoken Issues That Sabotage High Net Worth Families William Spencer, Dayle Spencer. “ When a father gives to his son , both laugh ; when a son gives to his father , both cry . " William Shakespeare With all due respect for the deep ...
Other candidates (1)
William Shakespeare (William Shakespeare) compilation39.0%
en can breathe or eyes can seeso long lives this and this gives life to thee xviii let me not to the
FeaturedThis quote was our Quote of the Day on January 9, 2025
More Quotes by William Add to List
When a Father Gives to His Son, Both Laugh
Click to enlarge Portrait | Landscape

About the Author

William Shakespeare

William Shakespeare (April 26, 1564 - April 23, 1616) was a Dramatist from England.

172 more quotes available

View Profile

Similar Quotes

William Wordsworth, Poet
William Wordsworth
Henry Ward Beecher, Clergyman
Henry Ward Beecher