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Love & Passion Quote by Don Rickles

"When you enter a room, you have to kiss his ring. I don't mind, but he has it in his back pocket"

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Power doesn’t just want respect; it wants choreography. Don Rickles turns that idea into a pocket-sized farce with the image of a guy demanding ring-kissing while literally keeping the ring in his back pocket. The joke lands because it telescopes a whole social system into one humiliating, absurd detail: the ritual is mandatory, but the symbol itself is cheap, hidden, and petty. Authority isn’t elevated here; it’s tacky, inconvenient, and aggressively needy.

Rickles’ genius is that he sounds almost agreeable: "I don't mind". That’s the dagger. It’s the tone of someone who’s learned the rules and can recite them with a shrug, which makes the rules look even more ridiculous. The subtext is a familiar Rickles dynamic: the target isn’t just a specific bully, boss, or big shot, but the entire performance of deference people are pressured to do in public. The ring is supposed to be a signet of legitimacy, lineage, or institutional weight. In the back pocket, it becomes a prop - and a gross one, implying you’re expected to kiss something that’s been sitting where it shouldn’t.

Contextually, Rickles made a career out of puncturing status with insult comedy that functioned like social sabotage. He mocks the power figure while also mocking the room that goes along with it. The line doesn’t argue against hierarchy in moral terms; it makes hierarchy look stupid enough that your laughter becomes a refusal to take it seriously.

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Rickles, Don. (2026, January 17). When you enter a room, you have to kiss his ring. I don't mind, but he has it in his back pocket. FixQuotes. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/when-you-enter-a-room-you-have-to-kiss-his-ring-i-55896/

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Rickles, Don. "When you enter a room, you have to kiss his ring. I don't mind, but he has it in his back pocket." FixQuotes. January 17, 2026. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/when-you-enter-a-room-you-have-to-kiss-his-ring-i-55896/.

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"When you enter a room, you have to kiss his ring. I don't mind, but he has it in his back pocket." FixQuotes, 17 Jan. 2026, https://fixquotes.com/quotes/when-you-enter-a-room-you-have-to-kiss-his-ring-i-55896/. Accessed 4 Feb. 2026.

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Don Rickles (May 8, 1926 - April 6, 2017) was a Comedian from USA.

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