"You don't look at each other on the subway"
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The intent is less about rudeness than about survival. The subway compresses strangers into an almost comic proximity, and the only way it doesn’t feel obscene is by enforcing a mutual pact of non-recognition. Don’t look, don’t make it real. Eye contact would turn anonymous bodies into people with demands, stories, and the potential for conflict. It would also, more tenderly, turn them into possible connection, which is its own kind of risk.
Subtext: modern civility is often a performance of absence. We call it respect for privacy, but it’s also a defense mechanism against overload. The train becomes a moving room full of individuals pretending they’re alone together, outsourcing community to headphones, screens, and the careful angle of a gaze.
Contextually, this fits Pegg’s broader persona: funny, observant, slightly melancholy about how contemporary life scripts us. It’s a joke with a sting, because it’s not accusing anyone; it’s implicating everyone.
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Pegg, Simon. (2026, January 16). You don't look at each other on the subway. FixQuotes. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/you-dont-look-at-each-other-on-the-subway-123429/
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Pegg, Simon. "You don't look at each other on the subway." FixQuotes. January 16, 2026. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/you-dont-look-at-each-other-on-the-subway-123429/.
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"You don't look at each other on the subway." FixQuotes, 16 Jan. 2026, https://fixquotes.com/quotes/you-dont-look-at-each-other-on-the-subway-123429/. Accessed 12 Feb. 2026.







