"You know, I've done this show for six years, and this could be the first time that I had a person that actually got no points, and I think it's a damn fine way to go out. I thought I was a loser until you walked up here; you made me feel like a man"
About this Quote
The line works by stacking reversals. “A damn fine way to go out” reframes a disastrous outcome as a kind of achievement, a perverse record worth celebrating. Then Combs swerves into self-deprecation - “I thought I was a loser” - to soften the hit and pull the audience back onto his side. It’s not generosity so much as control: by briefly putting himself below the contestant, he earns permission to push them even lower. The insult becomes a duet.
The subtext is about masculinity and status in front of a crowd. “You made me feel like a man” is intentionally overblown, mock-heroic language; it treats “manhood” as something comically fragile, restored not by virtue but by comparison. That’s funny because it’s ugly and familiar: ego as a zero-sum game, especially in competitive, gamified spaces.
Context matters: Combs hosted Family Feud in the early 90s, when daytime and syndication thrived on mild cruelty packaged as warmth. His persona was affable, quick, a little desperate to keep the room alive. Knowing his life ended young adds an unintended sting: the laugh is real, but so is the need underneath it - to win the audience, to win the moment, to not be the loser.
Quote Details
| Topic | Romantic |
|---|---|
| Source | Help us find the source |
| Cite |
Citation Formats
APA Style (7th ed.)
Combs, Ray. (2026, January 15). You know, I've done this show for six years, and this could be the first time that I had a person that actually got no points, and I think it's a damn fine way to go out. I thought I was a loser until you walked up here; you made me feel like a man. FixQuotes. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/you-know-ive-done-this-show-for-six-years-and-151188/
Chicago Style
Combs, Ray. "You know, I've done this show for six years, and this could be the first time that I had a person that actually got no points, and I think it's a damn fine way to go out. I thought I was a loser until you walked up here; you made me feel like a man." FixQuotes. January 15, 2026. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/you-know-ive-done-this-show-for-six-years-and-151188/.
MLA Style (9th ed.)
"You know, I've done this show for six years, and this could be the first time that I had a person that actually got no points, and I think it's a damn fine way to go out. I thought I was a loser until you walked up here; you made me feel like a man." FixQuotes, 15 Jan. 2026, https://fixquotes.com/quotes/you-know-ive-done-this-show-for-six-years-and-151188/. Accessed 12 Feb. 2026.


