Surviving My Mother (2007)

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Original Title: Comment survivre à sa mère

Clara's mother is on her death bed as she tells her daughter that she regrets they are not closer. This revelation causes Clara to pursue a closer relationship with her own daughter, Bianca.

Title: Surviving My Mother (2007)
"Surviving My Mother" is a Canadian comedy-drama from 2007, directed by Émile Gaudreault. The movie is an expedition of the troubled mother-daughter relationship that takes an unanticipated turn.

Plot Overview
The movie centres on a high school English teacher, Clara, (played by Caroline Dhavernas) and her complex relationship with her mother, Bianca (played by Ellen David). Clara's life revolves around teaching, composing, and looking after her terminally ill dad. She craves independence but finds herself stuck in Bianca's psychological controls. One day, under the impression of terminal disease diagnosis, Bianca, a prideful and self-absorbed female, reveals her plan to make Clara her replacement. Clara is torn in between her responsibility towards her mom and her desire for self-discovery, causing immense stress in between the two.

The Twisted Bond
A primary focus of the film is the twisted relationship between Bianca and Clara. Bianca, an accomplished pianist who quit her career to raise her child, has problem with sensations of bitterness towards Clara. Meanwhile, Clara views her mom as manipulative and controlling, preventing her uniqueness, and fostering a love-hate relationship between them. In spite of these sensations, the worry of losing her mother haunts Clara, adding another layer to their complex relationship.

The Unexpected Twist
After a series of misunderstandings, the movie takes an unexpected turn when Clara understands Bianca has been lying about being terminally ill. The stunning revelation comes as a wake-up call for Clara, prompting her to challenge her mother. Clara, who held back from pursuing life opportunities due to her mom's fear techniques, lastly breaks devoid of the cocoon of obligations.

Resolution and Transformation
The miscommunication present throughout the film draws a heartbreaking representation of love, deception, and the struggle for understanding. The layers of the mother-daughter relationship start to peel off as the film reaches its climax. After facing her mother about the deceptiveness, Clara goes through a duration of improvement, both personally and relationally. She starts choosing independently and ultimately develops into a more robust individual.

Bianca, on the other hand, gets a possibility to recognize her error of suffocating Clara with her pretence of disease. The film concludes with both characters discovering mutual respect and acceptance for each other.

Last Verdict
"Surviving My Mother" is a touching representation of a problematic yet poignant mother-daughter relationship. Although the movie has a comical tone, it sends a potent message about the significance of honesty and effective interaction in relationships. Through its amusing discussions and commendable efficiencies by Dhavernas and David, the movie magnificently records the intricacies of familial bonds. In spite of the emotional roller-coaster flight, the film leaves its audience with a gratifying ending that restores the power of understanding and resolution.

Top Cast

  • Caroline Dhavernas (small)
    Caroline Dhavernas
    Bianca
  • Ellen David (small)
    Ellen David
    Clara
  • Colin Mochrie (small)
    Colin Mochrie
    Rick
  • Adam J. Harrington (small)
    Adam J. Harrington
    Michael
  • Véronique Le Flaguais (small)
    Véronique Le Flaguais
    Clara's Mother
  • Louison Danis (small)
    Louison Danis
    Ginetta
  • Christian Bégin (small)
    Christian Bégin
    Pierre
  • Laurent Allaire (small)
    Laurent Allaire
    Khalid
  • Matt Holland (small)
    Matt Holland
    Martin
  • Danièle Lorain (small)
    Danièle Lorain
    Female Doctor
  • Lucinda Davis (small)
    Lucinda Davis
    Policewoman