"A man may fall many times, but he won't be a failure until he says that someone pushed him"
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Failure, here, isn’t measured in bruises. It’s measured in alibis.
Elmer G. Letterman builds a tough little moral trap: falling is inevitable, even expected, but the moment you outsource responsibility, you convert misfortune into identity. The line pivots on a sneaky shift in verbs. “Fall” is passive, almost neutral; it suggests gravity, bad footing, the ordinary hazards of being alive. “Says” is active and deliberate. The real collapse happens in language, when a person chooses a story that protects the ego at the expense of agency. Letterman isn’t romanticizing grit so much as policing the boundary between setback and self-deception.
The subtext is a critique of victim theater without denying that people do get knocked down by forces beyond their control. “Someone pushed him” isn’t primarily a factual claim; it’s a posture. It implies a world where outcomes are always someone else’s fault, where accountability is optional and resentment becomes a lifestyle. The quote also flatters the reader’s self-image: you can keep your dignity through repeated losses, as long as you refuse the cheap comfort of blame.
Contextually, it reads like mid-century American self-help before the genre had a name: an ethic of personal responsibility built for workplaces, locker rooms, and civic life, where character is proven under pressure. It works because it’s harsh but actionable: you can’t always prevent the fall, but you can choose what you do with it afterward.
Elmer G. Letterman builds a tough little moral trap: falling is inevitable, even expected, but the moment you outsource responsibility, you convert misfortune into identity. The line pivots on a sneaky shift in verbs. “Fall” is passive, almost neutral; it suggests gravity, bad footing, the ordinary hazards of being alive. “Says” is active and deliberate. The real collapse happens in language, when a person chooses a story that protects the ego at the expense of agency. Letterman isn’t romanticizing grit so much as policing the boundary between setback and self-deception.
The subtext is a critique of victim theater without denying that people do get knocked down by forces beyond their control. “Someone pushed him” isn’t primarily a factual claim; it’s a posture. It implies a world where outcomes are always someone else’s fault, where accountability is optional and resentment becomes a lifestyle. The quote also flatters the reader’s self-image: you can keep your dignity through repeated losses, as long as you refuse the cheap comfort of blame.
Contextually, it reads like mid-century American self-help before the genre had a name: an ethic of personal responsibility built for workplaces, locker rooms, and civic life, where character is proven under pressure. It works because it’s harsh but actionable: you can’t always prevent the fall, but you can choose what you do with it afterward.
Quote Details
| Topic | Perseverance |
|---|---|
| Source | Later attribution: Whispers In The Night (Melinda J. Abersold, 2013) modern compilationISBN: 9781483672618 · ID: pmxxAwAAQBAJ
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| Featured | This quote was our Quote of the Day on November 13, 2023 |
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