"A stiff apology is a second insult... The injured party does not want to be compensated because he has been wronged; he wants to be healed because he has been hurt"
- Gilbert K. Chesterton
About this Quote
This quote by Gilbert K. Chesterton speaks to the importance of authentic apologies. A stiff apology, or one that is not heartfelt, is a second insult to the injured party. It indicates that the criminal is not genuinely sorry for their actions and does not comprehend the gravity of the scenario. The victim does not wish to be made up for the wrong that was done to them; they wish to be healed from the hurt that was caused. An authentic apology is a recognition of the wrong that was done and an expression of regret. It is an opportunity for the criminal to reveal that they understand the hurt that was triggered and want to apologize. A real apology is an essential step in the recovery procedure and can help to bring back trust and reconstruct relationships.
"Why, so soon as French Canadians, who are in a minority in this House and in the country, were to organise as a political party, they would compel the majority to organise as a political party, and the result must be disastrous to themselves"
"In France, that let down the barriers more than a hundred years ago, the feeling of antipathy is still strong enough to sustain an anti-Jewish political party"
"Following the rise of the Labour Party it seemed reasonable, in 1927, to expect, or at least hope, that co-operation for the common good might gradually replace the competitiveness of capitalism"
"I really was a fan of his and always have been - his writing especially, you know? I think people a lot of times overlook that part, because he kind of got into that party character so heavy"