"All my friends were in the park smoking weed and getting pregnant. I didn't want to be the young black girl having a baby, a baby's father, being on welfare. That wasn't going to be my story"
About this Quote
The intent is blunt self-differentiation. She’s not just saying she made “better choices”; she’s signaling that she understood the script society expected her to follow and treated it like an enemy. The phrase “young black girl” isn’t incidental. It acknowledges the way race and gender turn ordinary teenage mistakes into permanent public identities - the kind that get flattened into stereotypes about “welfare” and absent fathers. By naming those outcomes in the language of stigma, she’s revealing how loud that judgment already was in her environment, shaping what counted as survival.
Context matters: Foxy emerges from a hip-hop ecosystem that rewarded bravado but rarely offered tenderness for girls trying to outrun circumstance. Her voice here is controlled, unsentimental, almost reportorial - the opposite of a redemption monologue. That restraint is the point. She’s arguing that escape isn’t always a cinematic breakthrough; sometimes it’s an everyday decision to not become content for other people’s assumptions.
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| Topic | Single Parent |
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APA Style (7th ed.)
Brown, Foxy. (2026, January 17). All my friends were in the park smoking weed and getting pregnant. I didn't want to be the young black girl having a baby, a baby's father, being on welfare. That wasn't going to be my story. FixQuotes. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/all-my-friends-were-in-the-park-smoking-weed-and-50321/
Chicago Style
Brown, Foxy. "All my friends were in the park smoking weed and getting pregnant. I didn't want to be the young black girl having a baby, a baby's father, being on welfare. That wasn't going to be my story." FixQuotes. January 17, 2026. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/all-my-friends-were-in-the-park-smoking-weed-and-50321/.
MLA Style (9th ed.)
"All my friends were in the park smoking weed and getting pregnant. I didn't want to be the young black girl having a baby, a baby's father, being on welfare. That wasn't going to be my story." FixQuotes, 17 Jan. 2026, https://fixquotes.com/quotes/all-my-friends-were-in-the-park-smoking-weed-and-50321/. Accessed 12 Feb. 2026.





