"Besides the physical strains I realized men can be pigs to women even when it's a man dressed as one"
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Rosenbaum’s line lands like a backstage confession: the most exhausting part of performing femininity isn’t the heels, the padding, or the posture - it’s the way the room changes once you’re read as a woman. Coming from an actor, the quote is less a theory than a field report. Acting is supposed to be controlled make-believe, but he’s describing a moment when the “role” unexpectedly triggers real social consequences.
The phrasing “men can be pigs” is blunt on purpose, a little embarrassed, a little angry. It signals he isn’t polishing this into a tasteful lesson; he’s admitting surprise at how quickly basic respect collapses. The kicker - “even when it’s a man dressed as one” - exposes the subtext: harassment isn’t about desire so much as permission. Some men don’t need a real woman to objectify; they need only the idea of womanhood, the social cue that says, Here is someone you can comment on, crowd, touch, or appraise.
There’s also an actor’s meta-awareness here. Cross-dressing, in popular culture, is often played for laughs or shock. Rosenbaum is pointing out the dark underside of that trope: the comedy depends on how safely the performer can step back out of the costume. His experience suggests you can’t fully control the audience’s entitlement once you step into a feminized presentation.
Contextually, it’s a bite-sized indictment of how gender is policed in public spaces - and how quickly “performance” becomes vulnerability.
The phrasing “men can be pigs” is blunt on purpose, a little embarrassed, a little angry. It signals he isn’t polishing this into a tasteful lesson; he’s admitting surprise at how quickly basic respect collapses. The kicker - “even when it’s a man dressed as one” - exposes the subtext: harassment isn’t about desire so much as permission. Some men don’t need a real woman to objectify; they need only the idea of womanhood, the social cue that says, Here is someone you can comment on, crowd, touch, or appraise.
There’s also an actor’s meta-awareness here. Cross-dressing, in popular culture, is often played for laughs or shock. Rosenbaum is pointing out the dark underside of that trope: the comedy depends on how safely the performer can step back out of the costume. His experience suggests you can’t fully control the audience’s entitlement once you step into a feminized presentation.
Contextually, it’s a bite-sized indictment of how gender is policed in public spaces - and how quickly “performance” becomes vulnerability.
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