"Better one's House be too little one day than too big all the Year after"
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Fuller’s line has the tidy snap of a sermon sharpened into a proverb: accept a brief pinch now to avoid a slow, draining misery later. “House” is both literal property and moral metaphor. In an England where status was read off roofs and rooms, a too-big house wasn’t merely extra square footage; it was a standing obligation - servants to pay, repairs to fund, guests to entertain, appearances to maintain. Fuller, a clergyman with a keen eye for ordinary vanities, aims straight at the spiritual trap of living beyond one’s means and calling it dignity.
The intent is corrective, but not dour. He frames modesty as prudence rather than self-denial. “Too little one day” suggests a temporary inconvenience: a cramped gathering, a night of embarrassment, a single moment when you can’t host as grandly as you’d like. Against that, he sets the real horror: a year of being “too big,” meaning too indebted, too anxious, too performative. The subtext is almost modern: the mortgage as moral hazard, lifestyle inflation as a kind of quiet slavery.
Fuller also sneaks in a communal ethic. A smaller house “one day” implies making do when company comes - tolerating imperfection without pretending you’re richer than you are. The line flatters restraint as strength: better to disappoint someone once than to disappoint your own household every day. In a culture that treated display as virtue, Fuller argues that scale can be a sin, not because comfort is wrong, but because pretense is expensive.
The intent is corrective, but not dour. He frames modesty as prudence rather than self-denial. “Too little one day” suggests a temporary inconvenience: a cramped gathering, a night of embarrassment, a single moment when you can’t host as grandly as you’d like. Against that, he sets the real horror: a year of being “too big,” meaning too indebted, too anxious, too performative. The subtext is almost modern: the mortgage as moral hazard, lifestyle inflation as a kind of quiet slavery.
Fuller also sneaks in a communal ethic. A smaller house “one day” implies making do when company comes - tolerating imperfection without pretending you’re richer than you are. The line flatters restraint as strength: better to disappoint someone once than to disappoint your own household every day. In a culture that treated display as virtue, Fuller argues that scale can be a sin, not because comfort is wrong, but because pretense is expensive.
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| Topic | Wisdom |
|---|---|
| Source | Rejected source: The holy and profane states: By Thomas Fuller (Thomas Fuller, 1841)IA: holyprofanestate0000thom
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