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Motherhood Quote by Payne Stewart

"But I'll tell you something: We had a big family discussion about it recently, my two sisters and I, and I pointed out that we all have the same genes as our mother and we're all susceptible to becoming alcoholics"

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There is something bracingly unvarnished about an elite athlete admitting the most ordinary, unglamorous inheritance: vulnerability. Payne Stewart isn’t trading in confession for catharsis; he’s doing risk management out loud. The line reads like a locker-room aside, but the intent is sober and practical: to reframe alcoholism not as a moral lapse or a tabloid-ready “problem,” but as a family trait you plan around, the way you’d plan around a bad knee.

The subtext is about agency under constraint. “We had a big family discussion” signals a shift from private shame to collective strategy, a small cultural rebellion against the idea that addiction is handled in isolation. Naming “genes” is doing double work: it drains the topic of melodrama and it widens the circle of responsibility. If susceptibility is shared, denial becomes harder to maintain, and vigilance becomes a kind of family ethic.

Context matters because sports culture, especially in Stewart’s era, was steeped in machismo and social drinking, with a premium placed on toughness and control. Stewart’s phrasing acknowledges that the brand of the athlete (self-mastery, composure, routine) can be a mask for how close anyone might be to losing those things. He’s not claiming inevitability; he’s arguing for humility. The quiet power here is the refusal to be exceptional. Even champions, he implies, don’t outrun their biology - they just learn to take it seriously.

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Stewart, Payne. (n.d.). But I'll tell you something: We had a big family discussion about it recently, my two sisters and I, and I pointed out that we all have the same genes as our mother and we're all susceptible to becoming alcoholics. FixQuotes. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/but-ill-tell-you-something-we-had-a-big-family-68704/

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Stewart, Payne. "But I'll tell you something: We had a big family discussion about it recently, my two sisters and I, and I pointed out that we all have the same genes as our mother and we're all susceptible to becoming alcoholics." FixQuotes. Accessed February 2, 2026. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/but-ill-tell-you-something-we-had-a-big-family-68704/.

MLA Style (9th ed.)
"But I'll tell you something: We had a big family discussion about it recently, my two sisters and I, and I pointed out that we all have the same genes as our mother and we're all susceptible to becoming alcoholics." FixQuotes, https://fixquotes.com/quotes/but-ill-tell-you-something-we-had-a-big-family-68704/. Accessed 2 Feb. 2026.

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Payne Stewart (January 30, 1957 - October 25, 1999) was a Athlete from USA.

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