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Success Quote by Dalai Lama

"Forget the failures. Keep the lessons"

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In six plain words, the Dalai Lama offers a kind of moral judo: take the force of defeat and redirect it into growth, without letting the ego turn it into identity. The line works because it refuses the two most common failure responses in modern life - denial and self-flagellation - and replaces them with a disciplined third option: selective memory. "Forget" is not amnesia; it's a refusal to rehearse humiliation. "Keep" is the tougher command, because lessons require looking directly at what went wrong, then choosing not to cling to the pain as proof of worthlessness.

The subtext is unmistakably Buddhist, but streamlined for a global audience. In Tibetan Buddhist practice, suffering isn't a personal brand; it's data about attachment, habit, and perception. By separating "failures" from "lessons", the quote smuggles in a larger claim: outcomes are unstable and partly uncontrollable, so building a self around them is a guaranteed trap. What you can own is attention - what you feed, what you repeat, what you release.

Its cultural context helps explain its stickiness. The Dalai Lama has long functioned in the West as a spiritual translator, offering portable wisdom that fits therapy-speak and self-help, yet still carries ethical weight. In an era that archives everything - screenshots, résumés, public missteps - this line reads like a quiet rebellion against permanent record culture: learn, repair, move forward, stop worshipping your own worst day.

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Dalai Lama

Dalai Lama (born July 6, 1935) is a Leader from Tibet.

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