"From what we get, we can make a living; what we give, however, makes a life"

Arthur Ashe’s words explore the distinction between mere existence and true fulfillment. Receiving and accumulating, whether money, resources, recognition, or other tangible benefits, form the basis upon which survival and comfort are built. These are the rewards of work and effort: salaries that pay bills, material items that shape daily life, professional success that brings prestige. Through them, a person ensures security and maintains a standard of living. Yet, these acquisitions alone address only practical needs and desires.

In contrast, giving, of oneself, time, compassion, knowledge, or resources, builds something deeper. Generosity creates connections, inspires gratitude, and fosters a sense of purpose that transcends self-interest. Acts of giving impact others and often ripple outward, influencing families, communities, and even society as a whole. Through giving, a person steps beyond the boundaries of self; they become part of something greater, contributing meaning and value that outlast transient acquisitions.

Giving also shapes identity. People are remembered less for what they amassed and more for how they touched others: kindness extended, support offered, understanding shown. Giving stabilizes one’s sense of place in the world. It provides context and significance to achievements and underpins the legacy left behind. Through giving, moments and relationships gain depth, forging memories that endure and shaping personal growth.

Life in its richest sense arises from generosity, connection, and empathy. The genuine satisfaction derived from helping others, sharing skills, or lifting spirits fills a fundamental human need for significance and social belonging. It is a recentering from self to others, from scarcity to abundance. Ultimately, while what we “get” might bring temporary satisfaction or material comfort, what we “give” transforms existence into a meaningful journey, weaving together purpose, happiness, and collective well-being.