"Healing takes courage, and we all have courage, even if we have to dig a little to find it"
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“Healing takes courage” flips the usual script where recovery is framed as passive time passing or damage quietly fading. Tori Amos, a musician whose work has long lived in the raw overlap of trauma, memory, and desire, treats healing as an active risk: the willingness to feel what you’ve spent years strategically avoiding. The line is deceptively plain, but it lands because it refuses the sentimental version of resilience. Courage here isn’t a medal or a personality trait; it’s a muscle you discover mid-strain.
The second clause is the real rhetorical move: “we all have courage.” It’s inclusive without being soft. Amos offers a democratic claim about inner resources, but she doesn’t pretend they’re conveniently accessible. “Even if we have to dig a little to find it” adds the crucial grit. Digging implies burial: courage as something covered over by survival habits, shame, dissociation, or the exhausting labor of seeming fine. Healing, then, becomes excavation work. You don’t summon bravery from thin air; you uncover it under the sediment of coping mechanisms that once protected you.
Culturally, the quote sits in tension with the wellness-industrial complex that sells “healing” as a brand identity. Amos pushes against that polished arc. Her version respects how messy and unglamorous recovery can be, while still insisting it’s possible. The intent isn’t to pep-talk; it’s to reframe: if you’re struggling, it may not mean you’re weak. It may mean you’re already doing the brave part.
The second clause is the real rhetorical move: “we all have courage.” It’s inclusive without being soft. Amos offers a democratic claim about inner resources, but she doesn’t pretend they’re conveniently accessible. “Even if we have to dig a little to find it” adds the crucial grit. Digging implies burial: courage as something covered over by survival habits, shame, dissociation, or the exhausting labor of seeming fine. Healing, then, becomes excavation work. You don’t summon bravery from thin air; you uncover it under the sediment of coping mechanisms that once protected you.
Culturally, the quote sits in tension with the wellness-industrial complex that sells “healing” as a brand identity. Amos pushes against that polished arc. Her version respects how messy and unglamorous recovery can be, while still insisting it’s possible. The intent isn’t to pep-talk; it’s to reframe: if you’re struggling, it may not mean you’re weak. It may mean you’re already doing the brave part.
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| Topic | Resilience |
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