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Fatherhood Quote by Anthony Doerr

"I always told my dad I'd play professional football"

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A novelist putting pro football on his personal vision board is a sly little sabotage of the author myth. We expect the future Pulitzer winner to confess to libraries, not locker rooms. That’s the move: Anthony Doerr opens a trapdoor under the “born-to-write” narrative and lets a more ordinary American script fall through - the kid who tells his dad he’ll go pro, a promise that’s half bravado, half prayer.

The line works because it’s not really about football. It’s about a son auditioning for approval in the language he thinks will land. “I always told my dad” centers the audience: this is a performance aimed at one person, the person whose belief feels like oxygen. “Always” turns it into ritual, the repeated incantation kids use to keep a future intact when they have no control over the present. And “professional” matters: not “I’ll play football,” but “I’ll make it,” the American upgrade from pastime to identity to paycheck.

Doerr’s context as a writer sharpens the irony without making it cute. Writers trade in imagined lives; here he admits he once wrote himself into a culturally legible role - athlete, winner, provider. The subtext is about the contingency of becoming: how many “dreams” are actually just socially acceptable ways to ask for love, and how often the real vocation arrives disguised as a detour. In one clean sentence, ambition becomes intimacy, and aspiration becomes a kind of translation.

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APA Style (7th ed.)
Doerr, Anthony. (2026, January 17). I always told my dad I'd play professional football. FixQuotes. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/i-always-told-my-dad-id-play-professional-football-33670/

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Doerr, Anthony. "I always told my dad I'd play professional football." FixQuotes. January 17, 2026. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/i-always-told-my-dad-id-play-professional-football-33670/.

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"I always told my dad I'd play professional football." FixQuotes, 17 Jan. 2026, https://fixquotes.com/quotes/i-always-told-my-dad-id-play-professional-football-33670/. Accessed 12 Feb. 2026.

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Anthony Doerr (born October 27, 1973) is a Writer from USA.

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